I NEED advice !!!! PLZ people any advice would be FANTASTIC....

Ok so I have this friend who I’ve been friends with for many years, in around may him and my other friends and a little “thing” ok they had sex and and thing that lasted about 2 maybe 3 weeks, anyway after that my friend “bob” totally ditched my other friend “jade”. Ok that was finally ova between them. Every1 was finished. But ova this last weekend “bob” asked me for “jade” number again, It was pretty obvious y he wanted her number but I gave it to him anyway. Through out that nite “bob” was sending “jade” txt msg’s asking her 2 become ‘**** buddies’, just causal sex without strings. Jade explained that she was going to have terms and conditions bwteem them for this arrangement to go any further and bob agreed. But “bob” strictly told jade not to say anything to myself or our other cassie. Well jade being a girl didn’t really know wat to do about the whole situation so, she asked our other friend cassie and myself for advice… we told her wat we thought about the whole situation…


Anyway wat confuses me that most this all happen on the Saturday afternoon, later that nite “bob” send’s “jade” a txt saying “between you and me I thnk that marli (myself) as ‘thing’ for me”. Full knowing that I have a boyfriend and that I have been going out with my boyfriend 4 ova 3 monthes now blah blah blah. I don’t get it y would a guy send that to girl about her other best friend?? Anyone plz explain??


. Any “jade” was with “cassie” (our other good friend). So “Jade” told “cassie” about the text and together they sent back a msg explaining that I didn’t have feeling for him and that I was crazy about my boyfriend blah blah blah, their also hinted the msg that he was actually the one who had the feelings for me not the other way around. And apparently cassie explained to me that bob sent back I reply explaining “no, no, i just think that, marli could have ‘small’ thing for me”


Anyway on the Sunday cassie explained all this to me and I was wondering~


1 do I have a rite to be major pissed off at him for say that to jade?


2 do I have to rite to say something to him about the situation even though I’m not meant to know about anything?


3 should I have a go at him for saying that about me to jade and get his side of the story?


Or do I just pretend that I don’t know anything and nothing has happened


But wat makes it worst is that I don’t know if jade know that I know, and if there has been anything else said about this between jade and bob, if that makes any sence?


Omg people can you plz give me any type of any sort of advise cause im am so confused rite now, I don’t know wat to do and this whole situation??


I NEED advice !!!! PLZ people any advice would be FANTASTIC....
okay knowing me im the type of person who makes mistakes when im mad so ill probally go after him and check him and blah but i think hearing the situation the best thing to do is prob have a group discussion with the gurls you mentioned and dont tell jade how you know just tell her you heard and then she'll prob. understand then yuh can confront bob!I NEED advice !!!! PLZ people any advice would be FANTASTIC....
technically, bob isn't supposed to know that you know about the text....so he could get made at jade for telling you about it, and then he could wonder what else jade has told you (**** buddies)....this could ruin a lot of things, but


1. yes you do...he seems like an idiot, no offense


2. not sure about that one...like i said, you arent even supposed to know


3. see #2
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honestly..the best thing to do is ignore..you may think its stupid or regret it late.. but that WAY better than losing a freind or two..trust me.. its really not that big a deal when u think about it.. sure.the guy sounds like a total douche..but youll have that in life.. and i especially wouldnt try anything if your friend ';jade'; doesnt know anything about you knowing..i know you get what im saying cuz thats pretty much how ur whole question was..haha... but its ok.. maybe later on down the road you can bring it up n be like ';hey do remember when...?'; but for now..just keep it to urself.. just some freindly advice..hope i helped : )