Here goes: Been together for 11 mos when GF broke up w/ me. Became somewhat smothering, clingy, etc. First 8 mos were bliss and both very in love (she was chasing me, etc.) Last few months have had more time on hands and therefore wanted to spend all my time with her and she said she lost attraction for me. Were apart for 3 weeks and a few days ago we agreed to work on things and take it slow which we have been doing successfully. dinner, walking, stuff like that fun. not pushing her at all. told me she may want to go away this summer and told me she is thinking about transferring schools next year (final year in college). This freaked me out since we have been talking and working on things, that I dont know why she would do this, if she missed her friends maybe (very few Gf's in our hometown). ANyways i do not know how to react nor do I know what the best thing to say is. I know you cant control a person but before we broke up she would have never even thought of this. What is my moveWhat do you THINK People? Advice Please read?
If she transfers then wait and see if the spark is still there, or if she moved on with her life. It is better to find out now than to make plans and find out she is the wrong one.What do you THINK People? Advice Please read?
suck it up and deal with it. as someone once said ';there's plenty of fishes in the sea';.
What will be, will be. You're right. You cannot control another person.
Let her know that you want her to be happy, whether or not she is with you. Communicate openly about the matter. If she is meant to be with you, she will. If not, be glad that you know now rather than years from now.
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