Any advice on people?

Recently one of the girls in my class (in high school) started to talk to me. She always says how intelligent I am (academically)... and today she asked ';So who's your girlfriend, Paul?'; I replied ';Uh... I don't have one.'; She says ';Are there any girls you like?'; I replied again, ';Yes';. ';In this school?'; ';Yes';.





You guessed it. I was lying through my teeth; I'm not really interested in any girls right now. And I don't plan to for a while. Is there something wrong with me? For the past couple years I've had this fear that I will never be able to get a girlfriend/get married and have a life simply because I don't have a clue on how to do it. I suck with girls. I wouldn't know the right thing to say if my life depended on it. Some kids the same age as me say that they have girlfriends; what is up with me? I've always considered myself the smart silent type. I don't go to parties/events/join clubs or anything like that. How will I ever succeed in life?Any advice on people?
Well you definatley don't need a woman to succeed. Its just a plus. It sounds like you really fear rejection. And its not that big of a deal that you just aren't interested in relationships right now. It's actually kind of smart, and drives a lot of girls WILD. The girl u talk about sounds like she likes you. Continue having conversation with her, and let her know that you fear relationship because u are bad at them. Maybe she can give you some pointers, because she knows u better than any of us on here. Have u had past relationships? Did ex girlfriend mention anything to u about being a bad boyfriend? As long as you treat ur girl well, and make her a priority u should be fine! Good luck!Any advice on people?
I don't understand which is the problem here. Is that the girl or the fact u don't like anybody? Whatever it is, DO NOT WORRY. Not liking somebody is not strange, u just haven't met a person that makes ur heart pulsate fast and u have time to do that. U'll find sb u'll have feelings for and then everything else will come. Take ur time. Life is not just high-school.


I hope u'll find ur perfect match... Cheers!
Okay look i am in high school as well and yes i am a girl! look if this girl likes you in any sort of the way you BETTER go with her i mean their is no way a smart guy like you could completely go through out their life without a partner. it is almost impossible and if you are horrible with girls just say what is on ur mind cuz we usually think that it is cute.!


hope i helped





shelbie





or e-mail me at shelbie.anderson@sendit.nodak.edu
sounds like the girl who was talking to you liked you, just you know..do her.
There's nothing wrong with you. You're just shy. You just need to take your time things will come eventually. You still got alot of growing up to do so you have plenty of time for parties and girls don't worry just yet.
Do you have a driver's license? Do you think that you just go down and ask for one and they just hand it to you? No, you have to practice driving, just like you have to practice relationships. How do you develop driving skills? By driving. So if you are as smart as you claim to be , I'll let you figure this one out..... How do you develop dating skills?
When I was younger I was pretty clueless when it came to girls. Yet, I learned that when a girl is smiling and talking to you, trying to get you to talk, that means she is interested. Maybe not as a boyfriend, just a friend at first. Talk to a girl just like you would any of your guy friends or someone in your family. It is that easy. Don't worry about getting married and all of that yet my young friend, that is way down the road. You make your own luck. Follow your bliss.