I'm looking for advice from people who have been divorced...?

Is there anyone else who married young, and later realized that they had little in common, and loved each other, but weren't really in love?I'm looking for advice from people who have been divorced...?
I would b e one of them people i got married the age of 19 ! to a guy in the Army we got married and had a baby then 11 months laters got devoriced it just was not ment to be we are better friends then we were ever lovers he's remarried and happy and has an other kid i have an other kid as well just not remarriedI'm looking for advice from people who have been divorced...?
Well, I married very young. I was 18, and 3 months out of high school. I was very much in love with him and he with me. We had a fair amount in common, but not in the way that matters. He was devoted to his pornography and his countless attempts to molest young girls, one of which was a family member, and his lifetime habit of self-gratification. We were married 14 years before I found out about the jacking off, and he knew how I felt about it. I knew about the porn and the one incident with my family member, and he had entered counseling, but when I found out that he still was actively trying to pursue young girls, continuing with the porn addiction, and about the jacking off I couldn't stay with a pervert any longer. I was supportive of an effort to change, but it was my effort, not his. We have 3 young boys and I will not allow them to grow up thinking that any of this is proper behavior of responsible adult men. We have been divorced about 18 months now. I did the leaving and the filing for divorce. Best decision I have ever made.





If I knew what I know now when I was 18, I would never ever ever marry before I was 24.





I am happy and peaceful for the 1st time in almost 20 years.
I was with my first husband since we were 16, got married at 18, divorced at 32. ex was a cheater, abuser, alcoholic. we had nothing in common.


Life is what you make it, if you can't be happy, get out. If you can work it out, more power to you. marriage is hard work and takes a lot of commitment. people grow and change, that is just part of life.
I was married when I was 18, the marriage lastest 5 months which was long enough to get pregnant, we ended it clean and friendly when we realized the mistake, and now I am married to my second husband 7 years and we are still very much in love....true loves are out there, and always remember to learn from your mistakes instead of regretting them.
This is a common occurrence, but is not advice. Sadly, some will go through an entire human life and never know what true love is, nor will they know that it exists, even though they have heard of it.
i married young too at 15 to be exact and later i realized a lot of thing but i did really love him but we have a lot of thing that makes the relationship hard for both of us so i really gets what you mean by this question
It can and does happen all the time... Sometimes we are too young to realize what true love and a long commitment means... There's a lot more to it than just hopping each others bones... It can be a very sad realization when you finally feel that emptiness inside and feel that there is nothing really binding the both of you together as a couple... Hopefully at this point you know what you really need in a relationship and what you should expect and demand from it... Life is one big lesson... Don't give up just yet...
I've been there and done that and was smart enough to get out of it. Fortunately for me we did not have kids.