Dating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?

Dating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?


i'm a 15 year old girl who has just moved to a NY HOOD





and i really wanna start dating there





and i was wondering if ghetto guys will find this attractive and how will they ACT around me.....and how should i REACT to them/ TALK to them





i am kinda still uncomfortable in my new surroundings





so this is how i look-----





i'm Iranian (Persian)


long wavy dark brown hair


light brown skin


dark brown eyes


thick lips (like angelina jolie....i'm not saying this to show off)


and i have a more fuller figure (hour glass shape)


oh ya and i wear hiphop clothes and its not just recently i always have even though most of the girls that lived where i used to live dress preppy





and my personality is confident, say what's on my mind, caring, empathetic, loving, passionate, funny, generous....that's all i can think of now





i know people are going to say guys are guys and they like girls but i want to how they would act and stuff because its a different culture and allDating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
So sorry....I'm in the wrong hood.Dating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
man i live in a gated community in boca raton florida (south florida) and i have never seen the ghetto other than miami..

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A thug with a heart! I know just what you mean! I love my thug! ';Ghetto'; guys are gonna have differnt ways of complimenting you and they will say the first thing that pops in their stupid little head. DEMAND RESPECT and you will get it (but becarful some times you can look like a *****) you have to think about what they really mean by what they say. I definitely think they will find you attractive. (now this knowledge is coming from a kentucky girl so our ';ghettos'; are alittle different from NY. But a thug is a thug. Just remember RESPECT and you don't gotta be bad for them to like you.
focuse on school even if you dont want to hear it if some guy will like you he will tell you so what is the whole big deal act like you always act.
i live in the GHETTO all my life and i stll do but honey its not that big of a deal i mean just be yourself and of course guys will like you.
******* right they will. I live in NY ghetto and would like to meet an older you.
From a white girl who grew up in a St. Paul hood...





Be yourself! Guys in the ghetto are just like guys anywhere else. Some will find you very attractive and some won't. Talk to them like you would any other guy. Be honest and friendly.





Cultural differences... Guys front a lot. They hit on girls to look cool to their friends. (guys in the suburbs do this too, but you'll be able to tell the difference) Don't fall for anything that isn't genuine. If they really like you, they'll be real with you. You aren't a status symbol or a notch on someones bedpost so don't let anyone treat you that way.





Good luck in your new surroundings! You'll do just fine.
Okay this is crazy just because you moved to the ';hood'; doesn't mean you have to date a ghetto person.
Hopefully you will meet someone that is trying to get out of the ghetto and move on to better things. Just because its the ghetto people seem to think that they have to stay there and settle. You should find someone that will accept you for who you are and all that stuff that you described should not matter. You will have no problem finding someone there, the problem is finding someone that will give you their heart. People there tend to close up to stay strong. Good Luck! I love my thug, but at some point when you grow up, you want someone that has the thug look, not a thug life.
Guys will either like you for your body or your personality. It does not matter where you or they live.
look gurl, guys that live in the hood are no good for serious relationships. I m sooooo glad you posted this question. Please hit me up ASAP so i can tell you what happened to me! I have your answer.
First of all be yourself! If the guy is just a thug and has no goals for himself and does nothing but stay in trouble run the other way. Who cares where he lives but don't talk to a guy who has nothing on his mind and does bad things and has horrible grades.
okay 1 u really dont want a thug cuz i grew up in da projects and they iz da nastiest, meanest, horrible people in da hood. U really cant smile alot around the dudes and im yo same age but i live down south n Roanoke Virginia. U kool and all but they want a hard gal that #1 kno's how 2 fite. Also they got there own hussle ( They work 4 wat they get). U have 2 alwayz look hard and also hard 2 get. U want 2 walk past dem a lot wit yo grls and and yo cuzzos and stuff. IF u kno how 2 act hard u will b okay. u dont have 2 worry about anybody messin wit u after u get the boy. U'll b aight if u follow my advice. I'm gonna send u a email and add u 2 my friendz or contact or somethin like dat. Hit me up on my email. I'll send it 1 u thoe
WELL......I MEAN THERE IS SUCH A THING AS A SENSITIVE THUG AND THEY ARE OUT THERE!!!! I THINK THAT U SHOULD TRY GETTIN TO KNOW A FEW OF THE GIRLS THERE BECAUSE GHETTO GURLS ALWAYS HAVE DA BIZ ON WHO'S HOT AND WHO'S TAKEN!!!!!!! WHEN U FIND ONE THAT IS SUITABLE TO U TRY TO GET IN HIS HEAD AND C WHAT HIS MIND HITTIN LIKE AND IF U CAN DEAL WITH THAT AND U LIKE HIS SWAGGER U NEED TO MAKE IT DO WHAT IT DO!!!!!!!!!
I'm from the ghetto, and based on your description, when I was 15 me and other guys in the neighborhood would have been all over you..lol thats how it was if a new girl moved in, but anyways, I would say just be yourself, and get to know people. Be careful of who you meet, you wouldn't want to go out with a guy who is running from the law, unless your really into that. and be careful of guys just trying to get a ';piece'; of you because they will try and your still young, so be careful, and don't allow yourself to be taken advantage of. And don't be quick to call everyone your friends.
first of all babes..heres the first thing..if your 15 and looking to start dating in the ghetto....you on a one way trip to crackpipe/hooker valley....you NEED TO THINK ABOUT SCHOOL!!! guys in the ghetto are there for one reason only...they cant get out cos they scum bags...any decent person trys to do well at somthing and moves out the dump...if you wanna date those sort of guys its upo to you but trust me...you cant just dip your toe in the water and walk off...guys from the ghetto are trained to mess up young girls lives...just be safe
be yourself!!