i'm a 15 year old girl who has just moved to a NY HOOD
and i really wanna start dating there
and i was wondering if ghetto guys will find this attractive and how will they ACT around me.....and how should i REACT to them/ TALK to them
i am kinda still uncomfortable in my new surroundings
so this is how i look-----
i'm Iranian (Persian)
long wavy dark brown hair
light brown skin
dark brown eyes
thick lips (like angelina jolie....i'm not saying this to show off)
and i have a more fuller figure (hour glass shape)
oh ya and i wear hiphop clothes and its not just recently i always have even though most of the girls that lived where i used to live dress preppy
and my personality is confident, say what's on my mind, caring, empathetic, loving, passionate, funny, generous....that's all i can think of now
i know people are going to say guys are guys and they like girls but i want to how they would act and stuff because its a different culture and allDating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
Just be yourself. That's all you truly can be.
If it's a predominantly Black neighborhood, then I think your looks will do you just fine. I don't want to get into something so contraversial but.......in many Black neighborhoods, your considered ';pretty'; if you have some White attributes without actually being White. That's why Latino and Persian girls seem to be so desired by them. Another thing is that People in these neighborhoods are less likely to be prejudice against Muslims (if you are one). In other areas that can be a problem but due to the amount of diversity, it probably won't be.
Don't believe that all ';Ghetto'; boys are thugs. Most aren't.
Some tips: Try to spend alot of time around the local b-ball court. That's a really good way to meet guys.
B4 you start trying to look for boys, try to make some female friends first. That way you won't get a bad reputation, and you'll have people to go man-hunting with.
Hope I helped.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
i'm a 15 year old girl who has just moved to a NY HOOD
and i really wanna start dating there
i am kinda still uncomfortable in my new surroundings
and i was wondering if ghetto guys will find this attractive and how will they ACT around me/ TALK to me.....and how should i REACT to them/ TALK to them
if you have nothing nice to say than please don't say anything at all
please don't be offended....i'm not trying to offend anybody
don't stereotype and also don't talk about me needing to focus on school (I get straight A's)Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
If you're confident, why are you worried. Just be yourself and carry yourself like an upstanding l-a-d-y.Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
Use protection. DO NOT get knocked up by one of those cats. You'll never see 'em again. Fact.
Sounds like you're already every ghetto guys dream girl seeing as you are a girl already and not a tranny like every other new yorker.
i think you are **** out of luck...you better find a guy that can play basketball or rap or something.....cuz your trapped and thats about the farthest they are going to go in life
ight it all depends which ghetto you in and any guy would pounce on a girl whose out there be a tease and flirt and find a couple of girl friends who can help you meet guys
and i really wanna start dating there
i am kinda still uncomfortable in my new surroundings
and i was wondering if ghetto guys will find this attractive and how will they ACT around me/ TALK to me.....and how should i REACT to them/ TALK to them
if you have nothing nice to say than please don't say anything at all
please don't be offended....i'm not trying to offend anybody
don't stereotype and also don't talk about me needing to focus on school (I get straight A's)Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
If you're confident, why are you worried. Just be yourself and carry yourself like an upstanding l-a-d-y.Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
Use protection. DO NOT get knocked up by one of those cats. You'll never see 'em again. Fact.
Sounds like you're already every ghetto guys dream girl seeing as you are a girl already and not a tranny like every other new yorker.
i think you are **** out of luck...you better find a guy that can play basketball or rap or something.....cuz your trapped and thats about the farthest they are going to go in life
ight it all depends which ghetto you in and any guy would pounce on a girl whose out there be a tease and flirt and find a couple of girl friends who can help you meet guys
Best advice from people who've been scared....and been there!!?
Hi,
I'm 23 and have been with my fiance' for 9 years..
My problem is I've never climaxed.I'm too scared.
He starts by playing with my clit..until my legs get shaky
and I get a really cold sensation.When that happens,I make him stop.What is wrong with me?I really want to let go and just c*m!He always tells me ';Baby I want You To C*m,So Bad';!
I've heard that you ';should'; masterbate to reach for the first time.I'm not comfortable with touching myself..I Love a Mans touch!
Advice PLEASE!!!Thanks..Best advice from people who've been scared....and been there!!?
Get yourself a vibrator. You won't have to touch yourself and it'll send you through the roof. That'll get you started. Soon you'll learn to be comfortable with that part of your sexuality and it'll help your sex life tremendously and bring you even closer to your fiance. Orgasms are beautiful and natural. Don't be scared or ashamed. Our Victorian society is what makes you scared and afraid. God gave us orgasms to enjoy...so head to Sharper Image. They have a cordless handheld massager that works great and you don't have to go to one of those NASTY adult stores.
Good luck, relax and just try to enjoy yourself.Best advice from people who've been scared....and been there!!?
Dear Miss. With all due respect, you have not said what you are afraid of. Are you afraid of losing control? Are you afraid of having a heart attack? Are you afraid of too much pleasure? Or, are you not allowing yourself to climax because it is a control issue between you and your boyfriend. Go see a good sex therapist, and all your answers will come to you.
just do it .... he will like it ... thats what guys live for!
I'm 23 and have been with my fiance' for 9 years..
My problem is I've never climaxed.I'm too scared.
He starts by playing with my clit..until my legs get shaky
and I get a really cold sensation.When that happens,I make him stop.What is wrong with me?I really want to let go and just c*m!He always tells me ';Baby I want You To C*m,So Bad';!
I've heard that you ';should'; masterbate to reach for the first time.I'm not comfortable with touching myself..I Love a Mans touch!
Advice PLEASE!!!Thanks..Best advice from people who've been scared....and been there!!?
Get yourself a vibrator. You won't have to touch yourself and it'll send you through the roof. That'll get you started. Soon you'll learn to be comfortable with that part of your sexuality and it'll help your sex life tremendously and bring you even closer to your fiance. Orgasms are beautiful and natural. Don't be scared or ashamed. Our Victorian society is what makes you scared and afraid. God gave us orgasms to enjoy...so head to Sharper Image. They have a cordless handheld massager that works great and you don't have to go to one of those NASTY adult stores.
Good luck, relax and just try to enjoy yourself.Best advice from people who've been scared....and been there!!?
Dear Miss. With all due respect, you have not said what you are afraid of. Are you afraid of losing control? Are you afraid of having a heart attack? Are you afraid of too much pleasure? Or, are you not allowing yourself to climax because it is a control issue between you and your boyfriend. Go see a good sex therapist, and all your answers will come to you.
just do it .... he will like it ... thats what guys live for!
Any advice about navy basic training for me from people who have completed it?
The first answerer is very right. Your RDC's are not the enemy. Their job is to make you into a sailor and that basically means someone who can take orders and not freeze up when the ship is on fire (literally).
Don't stop moving during your runs. I was a terrible runner and even injured my ankle during basic training but my RDCs never demoted me because I never stopped trying (even a fast walk is more acceptable than sownright quitting/stopping which is a no-no unless you're dying.
Try to practice running a 12-minute mile before you leave. That's not a problem for most people but like I said, I'm a terrible runner.
Also, many recruits don't know this but if you try to get into one of the 900 divisions, you won't have to deal with galley week which I've been told is one of the most horrible parts of basic training. While other recruits were busy sweating in the galley with little to no sleep, us 900's were busy rehearsing songs and drills for our graduation performance ; )
You get into a 900 division (especially triple threat) by either being good with drills (twirling a baton (fake rifle), playing a band instrument or being able to carry a tune (the birthday song, Star Spangled Banner, etc) or if you've had an especially high ASVAB score.
That's how it was up until I got out of the Navy in '04. I don't think things have changed that much since then.
Practice treading deep water too and remember that it could always be worse: you could be in Marine bootcamp instead.
: D
EDIT: If you're not from a cold-weather state, try your hardest not to go to bootcamp during the winter time. Great Lakes gets some brutal snow and it sucks to have to shovel that stuff off the grinder much less march through the cold (the walkways are usually shoveled clean too though there may be ice sometimes forms on them).Any advice about navy basic training for me from people who have completed it?
From what I hear it has changed quite a bit since I was there in '94- '95. Expect early mornings, lots of class instruction, and lots of drills. Pay attention in class and whatever you do, DON'T FALL ASLEEP. Study study study, that is the only way you will pass your tests, unless you want to be sent back two-weeks every time you fail the retake. Last and certainly the most important, leave the females alone! The best way to find yourself in a heap of trouble is to get caught fraternizing with the opposite sex outside of professional means. Learn your ranks and your 11 general orders of a sentry before you get to Great Lakes, it will help you out alot more if you know them by heart. Also, don't fight taking your mask off when you go to the gas chamber, best to just do it and get it over with than to have the RDC's make you do it again. Good luck to you and enjoy your time in the Navy.
Regards,
Former Aviation Boatswains Mate (Equipment) Third ClassAny advice about navy basic training for me from people who have completed it?
In case on one else said it. Thank you for doing your part. And what you feel is the only thing that matters. They will see how far they can push you. it's OK every one has done it. Remember when you did some thing wrong and how scared you were of what he/she was going to do to you and they did. About 1/2 of that. Keep you person father, mother, brother etc. in your mind. they will guide you in spirit. But you will become your own person very soon. And above all Be honest with your self. You will do things you have read about.
keep your ears open, the 1 thing stressed the most is ATTENTION TO DETAIL. remember that some things you think are dumb or make no sense at all. attention to detail is what they are instilling in you. the next thing is STAY AWAKE once you fall asleep you have just insulted your instructor every minute (other than 2200-0600) is for traing. if u fall asleep ur telling them you dont want to learn.
A mistake many make is trying to argue or reason with an RDC. Don't do it. If they tell you the sky is pink and butthole is square, just say ';yes petty officer.'; If you smoke, some recommend quitting before you go, I say let the navy do it for you. You'll be too(literally)sick, busy and disoriented to think about smoking so it's not really that bad.
Too bad it isn't in San Diego anymore. That's where I went. The hardest part for me was staying awake. Having a company commander that sounded like Elmer Fudd didn't help. You'll make it. Get on the drill team if you can. I did and I had more freedom because I was with the team getting ready for graduation. In other words, AWAY from the red ropers (company commanders). If you mess up you get sent to a special physical training that is run by SEAL's and lasts forever. SEAL's have no pity for you either. I went once and learned! Just keep your mouth shut, your ears open and you will be fine. Good luck!!
Don't quit. They are not trying to whip you in shape and break you. They are trying to see if you can follow orders under duress and act efficiently. It is a mind game more than anything. Do the physical activities and try. As long as they see you are pushing yourself, they won't have to push you.eye makeup remover
Don't stop moving during your runs. I was a terrible runner and even injured my ankle during basic training but my RDCs never demoted me because I never stopped trying (even a fast walk is more acceptable than sownright quitting/stopping which is a no-no unless you're dying.
Try to practice running a 12-minute mile before you leave. That's not a problem for most people but like I said, I'm a terrible runner.
Also, many recruits don't know this but if you try to get into one of the 900 divisions, you won't have to deal with galley week which I've been told is one of the most horrible parts of basic training. While other recruits were busy sweating in the galley with little to no sleep, us 900's were busy rehearsing songs and drills for our graduation performance ; )
You get into a 900 division (especially triple threat) by either being good with drills (twirling a baton (fake rifle), playing a band instrument or being able to carry a tune (the birthday song, Star Spangled Banner, etc) or if you've had an especially high ASVAB score.
That's how it was up until I got out of the Navy in '04. I don't think things have changed that much since then.
Practice treading deep water too and remember that it could always be worse: you could be in Marine bootcamp instead.
: D
EDIT: If you're not from a cold-weather state, try your hardest not to go to bootcamp during the winter time. Great Lakes gets some brutal snow and it sucks to have to shovel that stuff off the grinder much less march through the cold (the walkways are usually shoveled clean too though there may be ice sometimes forms on them).Any advice about navy basic training for me from people who have completed it?
From what I hear it has changed quite a bit since I was there in '94- '95. Expect early mornings, lots of class instruction, and lots of drills. Pay attention in class and whatever you do, DON'T FALL ASLEEP. Study study study, that is the only way you will pass your tests, unless you want to be sent back two-weeks every time you fail the retake. Last and certainly the most important, leave the females alone! The best way to find yourself in a heap of trouble is to get caught fraternizing with the opposite sex outside of professional means. Learn your ranks and your 11 general orders of a sentry before you get to Great Lakes, it will help you out alot more if you know them by heart. Also, don't fight taking your mask off when you go to the gas chamber, best to just do it and get it over with than to have the RDC's make you do it again. Good luck to you and enjoy your time in the Navy.
Regards,
Former Aviation Boatswains Mate (Equipment) Third ClassAny advice about navy basic training for me from people who have completed it?
In case on one else said it. Thank you for doing your part. And what you feel is the only thing that matters. They will see how far they can push you. it's OK every one has done it. Remember when you did some thing wrong and how scared you were of what he/she was going to do to you and they did. About 1/2 of that. Keep you person father, mother, brother etc. in your mind. they will guide you in spirit. But you will become your own person very soon. And above all Be honest with your self. You will do things you have read about.
keep your ears open, the 1 thing stressed the most is ATTENTION TO DETAIL. remember that some things you think are dumb or make no sense at all. attention to detail is what they are instilling in you. the next thing is STAY AWAKE once you fall asleep you have just insulted your instructor every minute (other than 2200-0600) is for traing. if u fall asleep ur telling them you dont want to learn.
A mistake many make is trying to argue or reason with an RDC. Don't do it. If they tell you the sky is pink and butthole is square, just say ';yes petty officer.'; If you smoke, some recommend quitting before you go, I say let the navy do it for you. You'll be too(literally)sick, busy and disoriented to think about smoking so it's not really that bad.
Too bad it isn't in San Diego anymore. That's where I went. The hardest part for me was staying awake. Having a company commander that sounded like Elmer Fudd didn't help. You'll make it. Get on the drill team if you can. I did and I had more freedom because I was with the team getting ready for graduation. In other words, AWAY from the red ropers (company commanders). If you mess up you get sent to a special physical training that is run by SEAL's and lasts forever. SEAL's have no pity for you either. I went once and learned! Just keep your mouth shut, your ears open and you will be fine. Good luck!!
Don't quit. They are not trying to whip you in shape and break you. They are trying to see if you can follow orders under duress and act efficiently. It is a mind game more than anything. Do the physical activities and try. As long as they see you are pushing yourself, they won't have to push you.
Advice on dating older people?
I'm a girl, still in highschool, however I was recently asked out by a girl who is about 5 years older than I am.
Should I go through with it?
Is this age gap a big deal?Advice on dating older people?
The younger you are the fewer years difference is best. If you were 25 and this lady was 30 it wouldn't be that big of a deal. But, if you are 15 or 16 and this lady is 21...you wouldn't have as much in common and the relationship might be one sided in the older person's favor. If you're parents allow it, then maybe you should give her a try...if not, then obey the law and find someone closer to your age.Advice on dating older people?
Depends on how old you are?? My husband was 29 when I met him, I was 19.....It made things very awkward and difficult for us. He was raising a son, and I was in college. And we both grew up in different generations. He grew up in the 80s,and styles and values were different. We actually had nothing in common, except lust.
depend on what your age is?
5 years difference is pretty steep when around your age.
14, 19?
15, 20?
16, 21?
17, 22?
18, 23?
these are pretty steep age diffrences.
you get to 19, 20, and 5 years starts to become less and less a difference as you get older.
The difference is great, between a high school student and a college student! However when you are older its not so much of a difference anymore. Basically its because a lot of change takes place during those years!
Should I go through with it?
Is this age gap a big deal?Advice on dating older people?
The younger you are the fewer years difference is best. If you were 25 and this lady was 30 it wouldn't be that big of a deal. But, if you are 15 or 16 and this lady is 21...you wouldn't have as much in common and the relationship might be one sided in the older person's favor. If you're parents allow it, then maybe you should give her a try...if not, then obey the law and find someone closer to your age.Advice on dating older people?
Depends on how old you are?? My husband was 29 when I met him, I was 19.....It made things very awkward and difficult for us. He was raising a son, and I was in college. And we both grew up in different generations. He grew up in the 80s,and styles and values were different. We actually had nothing in common, except lust.
depend on what your age is?
5 years difference is pretty steep when around your age.
14, 19?
15, 20?
16, 21?
17, 22?
18, 23?
these are pretty steep age diffrences.
you get to 19, 20, and 5 years starts to become less and less a difference as you get older.
The difference is great, between a high school student and a college student! However when you are older its not so much of a difference anymore. Basically its because a lot of change takes place during those years!
Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
i'm a 15 year old girl who has just moved to a NY HOOD
and i really wanna start dating there
i am kinda still uncomfortable in my new surroundings
and i was wondering if ghetto guys will find this attractive and how will they ACT around me/ TALK to me.....and how should i REACT to them/ TALK to them
if you have nothing nice to say than please don't say anything at all
please don't be offended....i'm not trying to offend anybody
don't stereotype and also don't talk about me needing to focus on school (I get straight A's)Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
Wear booty shorts and a baseball cap and say ';yo'; after every sentence and don't be afraid to tell a ***** what's up. JK. Seriously, with you appearance and the personality expressed in your writing you will attract many dudes. Just be cool. Trust me, dudes are the same every where. Just relax, give him his space, let him know that you care and enjoy yourself. Anyman who is worth dating can appreciate that.
i'm a 15 year old girl who has just moved to a NY HOOD
and i really wanna start dating there
i am kinda still uncomfortable in my new surroundings
and i was wondering if ghetto guys will find this attractive and how will they ACT around me/ TALK to me.....and how should i REACT to them/ TALK to them
if you have nothing nice to say than please don't say anything at all
please don't be offended....i'm not trying to offend anybody
don't stereotype and also don't talk about me needing to focus on school (I get straight A's)Dating Advice From People Who Live In The GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
Wear booty shorts and a baseball cap and say ';yo'; after every sentence and don't be afraid to tell a ***** what's up. JK. Seriously, with you appearance and the personality expressed in your writing you will attract many dudes. Just be cool. Trust me, dudes are the same every where. Just relax, give him his space, let him know that you care and enjoy yourself. Anyman who is worth dating can appreciate that.
Dating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
i'm a 15 year old girl who has just moved to a NY HOOD
and i really wanna start dating there
and i was wondering if ghetto guys will find this attractive and how will they ACT around me.....and how should i REACT to them/ TALK to them
i am kinda still uncomfortable in my new surroundings
so this is how i look-----
i'm Iranian (Persian)
long wavy dark brown hair
light brown skin
dark brown eyes
thick lips (like angelina jolie....i'm not saying this to show off)
and i have a more fuller figure (hour glass shape)
oh ya and i wear hiphop clothes and its not just recently i always have even though most of the girls that lived where i used to live dress preppy
and my personality is confident, say what's on my mind, caring, empathetic, loving, passionate, funny, generous....that's all i can think of now
i know people are going to say guys are guys and they like girls but i want to how they would act and stuff because its a different culture and allDating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
The beautiful thing about NY is that there really is no one girl who will appeal to all guys. Your description of yourself sounds gorgeous. Being confident is the biggest turn on!
My only advice really is that you only spend your time on guys who have a good heart and have something going for them, as in that they are not in a gang. Spend time with guys, who like yourself, value learning and not just being ghetto rats.
Dating is the easy part. Not wasting your time on jerks is another thing!
All the best to you Dear!Dating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
be your self and and dont try to be someone your not. you sound cute so i dont think you will have any problem meeting guys. just be your self and all will be ok... good luck and be safe..
The best bet would probably be to just be yourself... but kinda acting like a 'thug' and a 'bad 'b*tch' will help you out too.
no, ur better off becoming a lezhbian!
first thing about people around their is you do not have to change your personality eventually their will be someone who you will connect with. But if you force it to go to quickly they will take advantage of you. Most of the kids at your age who will show interest will show it mostly just to have fun with you but not to have a relationship or any commitment. Fact is neither of you can spend more time then a lucky day after school or a weekend. Because of that everyone at that age just wants to experiment. If you are looking for a commitment and a relationship but dont want to be taken advantage of then be carefull or wait a few more years because most likely you may get hurt. But if you just want to experiment. then all i can say is be careful.
Hey sup Im from nyc bronx, Iranians are koo. they actually look latinas. and you know that nyc got alot of latin people so you might mash up with latino people more. I personally hang out with anyone black,hispanic only thing theres not alot of white people in the place where I live. just be yourself thats the best dont try to ';blend'; in or anything like that. cuz im straight up crazy when it comes to my personality but I always can be gentle to women. so you would be a nice person to meet. oki :)
and i really wanna start dating there
and i was wondering if ghetto guys will find this attractive and how will they ACT around me.....and how should i REACT to them/ TALK to them
i am kinda still uncomfortable in my new surroundings
so this is how i look-----
i'm Iranian (Persian)
long wavy dark brown hair
light brown skin
dark brown eyes
thick lips (like angelina jolie....i'm not saying this to show off)
and i have a more fuller figure (hour glass shape)
oh ya and i wear hiphop clothes and its not just recently i always have even though most of the girls that lived where i used to live dress preppy
and my personality is confident, say what's on my mind, caring, empathetic, loving, passionate, funny, generous....that's all i can think of now
i know people are going to say guys are guys and they like girls but i want to how they would act and stuff because its a different culture and allDating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
The beautiful thing about NY is that there really is no one girl who will appeal to all guys. Your description of yourself sounds gorgeous. Being confident is the biggest turn on!
My only advice really is that you only spend your time on guys who have a good heart and have something going for them, as in that they are not in a gang. Spend time with guys, who like yourself, value learning and not just being ghetto rats.
Dating is the easy part. Not wasting your time on jerks is another thing!
All the best to you Dear!Dating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?
be your self and and dont try to be someone your not. you sound cute so i dont think you will have any problem meeting guys. just be your self and all will be ok... good luck and be safe..
The best bet would probably be to just be yourself... but kinda acting like a 'thug' and a 'bad 'b*tch' will help you out too.
no, ur better off becoming a lezhbian!
first thing about people around their is you do not have to change your personality eventually their will be someone who you will connect with. But if you force it to go to quickly they will take advantage of you. Most of the kids at your age who will show interest will show it mostly just to have fun with you but not to have a relationship or any commitment. Fact is neither of you can spend more time then a lucky day after school or a weekend. Because of that everyone at that age just wants to experiment. If you are looking for a commitment and a relationship but dont want to be taken advantage of then be carefull or wait a few more years because most likely you may get hurt. But if you just want to experiment. then all i can say is be careful.
Hey sup Im from nyc bronx, Iranians are koo. they actually look latinas. and you know that nyc got alot of latin people so you might mash up with latino people more. I personally hang out with anyone black,hispanic only thing theres not alot of white people in the place where I live. just be yourself thats the best dont try to ';blend'; in or anything like that. cuz im straight up crazy when it comes to my personality but I always can be gentle to women. so you would be a nice person to meet. oki :)
Do you give people good advice sometimes which you do not if use yourself??? i do sometimes...?
I think everyone does this..hence why so many people get called hypocrites. I think the reason for this is because it is so much easier to see fault in other people's situations rather than in your own. We often see our own lives ';through rose colored glasses';. That's why it is important to try not to get frustrated with people when you give advice and they don't take it. Chances are you are either struggling with a similar situation, or they have given you advice that you have completly ignored.Do you give people good advice sometimes which you do not if use yourself??? i do sometimes...?
yes but noDo you give people good advice sometimes which you do not if use yourself??? i do sometimes...?
This is happening all the time everywhere to all people. It is the intention to give help and comfort that counts even though every situation is unique and we may not use the good advice on ourselves. Like leave your spouse, he is a no good, study hard every day, exercise and eat sensibly, don't go out with so and so .... Sounds familiar? It is a game we all play.
Yeah all the way but, I dont follow it even if im in the same situation maybe I should start to or maybe im a know it all which is something i need to think about
yes but noDo you give people good advice sometimes which you do not if use yourself??? i do sometimes...?
This is happening all the time everywhere to all people. It is the intention to give help and comfort that counts even though every situation is unique and we may not use the good advice on ourselves. Like leave your spouse, he is a no good, study hard every day, exercise and eat sensibly, don't go out with so and so .... Sounds familiar? It is a game we all play.
Yeah all the way but, I dont follow it even if im in the same situation maybe I should start to or maybe im a know it all which is something i need to think about
What advice do you have for people who have a mental illnesses?
Follow your doctor's treatment regimine.What advice do you have for people who have a mental illnesses?
consult a specialist like a psychologist or a counsellor, go to 88db website, and search for a professional psychologist or counsellor that can help you solve mental illness and psychological issues...good luckWhat advice do you have for people who have a mental illnesses?
Why give advice to people who have mental illnesses? They only listen to the voices in their head!!
That would depend on what mental illness they suffered from. One bit of advice is not going to be a ';fix all';.
consult a specialist like a psychologist or a counsellor, go to 88db website, and search for a professional psychologist or counsellor that can help you solve mental illness and psychological issues...good luckWhat advice do you have for people who have a mental illnesses?
Why give advice to people who have mental illnesses? They only listen to the voices in their head!!
That would depend on what mental illness they suffered from. One bit of advice is not going to be a ';fix all';.
Im trying to get to know my boyfriends mother better, but its awkward & we both arent outgoing people, advice?
I have been with my bf for over a year now %26amp; havent been around his mother too much except for family functions %26amp; stopping over her house once in awhile. She is a nice person, but not as outgoing as some of my ex's mothers were %26amp; more of a speak when spoken to type of person. I am a bit shy in social situations %26amp; when my boyfriend leaves the room, there is an awkward forced conversation between the two of us which leaves me cringing inside %26amp; I find myself trying to use excuses not to have to visit his mom very much which in turn kind of frustrates my bf %26amp; rightly so, he is very close to his mom. I plan on marrying my bf, so its important for me to have a good relationship with his mom. Im just curious if there is any tips or advice on how I can get to know her better %26amp; feel comfortable about it since Im kind of shy %26amp; socially anxious %26amp; she isnt as outgoing as I would like, any advice would be appreciated!!!Im trying to get to know my boyfriends mother better, but its awkward %26amp; we both arent outgoing people, advice?
maybe try askin your bf about what she likes to talk about, what sorts of books, music, blah blah blah shes intereted in. maybe you'll findtht you both are interested in the same thing so that way you'll have somthing to talk about.
try and rember that shes just as shy as you are :) so shes probably thinking the same things as you :)
if it turns out that the 2 of you just dont relly get along, then try not to worry about. not many people get along with their partners parents. i know it would be best if you do, but hey in the end you dont haveto live with her and she dont have to ive with you :)Im trying to get to know my boyfriends mother better, but its awkward %26amp; we both arent outgoing people, advice?
Maybe she feels the same way you do. I would find out what she is interested in and make a date for all of you to go out together, and bring a girlfriend with you to help break the ice a bit;)
Unless you're engaged, you're out of line. Withdraw.
just relax may be your trying to hard,any way your not marring her so whats the problem,just greet her every time you see each other,
you should keep chatting with her....
like a ladies talk....make her see that you like her..you are having fun talking with her. shop with her sometimes... if not, shop for her sometimes...
good luck
just bite your tongue. dont try to be cool with someone you would get along with.over time you all will warm up to eachother
watch the news, read the paper.. and then you will have something to talk about.. like did you hear about ... oh no well this is what happen.. blah blah blah.. good luck
WHY WOULD U WANT TO MEET HIS MUM!
omg thats just like me!! if you find an ansewer tell me..lol
Since you plan on marrying someday (he is planning to marry you too, right?) then you are right in trying to get to know her better. Perhaps you could arrange to do something fun together, just you and she. Go get pedicures, or to a paint-your-own-ceramics studio, or a crafts class like jewelry-making or drawing. It would give you something else to focus on besides having to make conversation 100% of the time. (It's the same approach I recommend for first or second dates, too, which can be awkward, so it would also work well in your situation.)
U are not forced 2 be friend with his mum, its just knowing her, and respecting her. U don't have 2 spend much time together and go out. What u have 2 do is only to be in her good books. If u are around her, talk if she makes a conversation and try to feel free, its better if u don't talk much cause u may end up saying things u didn't wanna say. So just drop by anytime your boyfriend ask u too, if he made something to eat, wash dishes after, and show respect.
Relax she probably feels the same way that you do. The best thing to do is smile and be honest about things you talk to her about don't try to impress her just be yourself. Make sure that you ask your BF what type of things she is interested on and look some stuff up on the web or keep and eye out for funny shows or the news and bring it up to her you'll be surprised of how little it takes to get someone to talk. Everything is cool you got this. Hey, at least your trying right. ;)
I think if you are interested in your boyfriend it is important to have a good relationship with his mom as you have rightly put it. Since you are aware that she is not much of a conversationist, she too must be having apprehensions - you could break the ice by extending a hand of friendship. For this time and effort are necessary. May be you take something along the next time you go to meet her. It could be flowers, or something you cooked, or a book which she may like. You could take up a conversation from any of these and take them forward. You could ask her about your bf's childhood and what type of a kid he was, photos etc...sunscreen
maybe try askin your bf about what she likes to talk about, what sorts of books, music, blah blah blah shes intereted in. maybe you'll findtht you both are interested in the same thing so that way you'll have somthing to talk about.
try and rember that shes just as shy as you are :) so shes probably thinking the same things as you :)
if it turns out that the 2 of you just dont relly get along, then try not to worry about. not many people get along with their partners parents. i know it would be best if you do, but hey in the end you dont haveto live with her and she dont have to ive with you :)Im trying to get to know my boyfriends mother better, but its awkward %26amp; we both arent outgoing people, advice?
Maybe she feels the same way you do. I would find out what she is interested in and make a date for all of you to go out together, and bring a girlfriend with you to help break the ice a bit;)
Unless you're engaged, you're out of line. Withdraw.
just relax may be your trying to hard,any way your not marring her so whats the problem,just greet her every time you see each other,
you should keep chatting with her....
like a ladies talk....make her see that you like her..you are having fun talking with her. shop with her sometimes... if not, shop for her sometimes...
good luck
just bite your tongue. dont try to be cool with someone you would get along with.over time you all will warm up to eachother
watch the news, read the paper.. and then you will have something to talk about.. like did you hear about ... oh no well this is what happen.. blah blah blah.. good luck
WHY WOULD U WANT TO MEET HIS MUM!
omg thats just like me!! if you find an ansewer tell me..lol
Since you plan on marrying someday (he is planning to marry you too, right?) then you are right in trying to get to know her better. Perhaps you could arrange to do something fun together, just you and she. Go get pedicures, or to a paint-your-own-ceramics studio, or a crafts class like jewelry-making or drawing. It would give you something else to focus on besides having to make conversation 100% of the time. (It's the same approach I recommend for first or second dates, too, which can be awkward, so it would also work well in your situation.)
U are not forced 2 be friend with his mum, its just knowing her, and respecting her. U don't have 2 spend much time together and go out. What u have 2 do is only to be in her good books. If u are around her, talk if she makes a conversation and try to feel free, its better if u don't talk much cause u may end up saying things u didn't wanna say. So just drop by anytime your boyfriend ask u too, if he made something to eat, wash dishes after, and show respect.
Relax she probably feels the same way that you do. The best thing to do is smile and be honest about things you talk to her about don't try to impress her just be yourself. Make sure that you ask your BF what type of things she is interested on and look some stuff up on the web or keep and eye out for funny shows or the news and bring it up to her you'll be surprised of how little it takes to get someone to talk. Everything is cool you got this. Hey, at least your trying right. ;)
I think if you are interested in your boyfriend it is important to have a good relationship with his mom as you have rightly put it. Since you are aware that she is not much of a conversationist, she too must be having apprehensions - you could break the ice by extending a hand of friendship. For this time and effort are necessary. May be you take something along the next time you go to meet her. It could be flowers, or something you cooked, or a book which she may like. You could take up a conversation from any of these and take them forward. You could ask her about your bf's childhood and what type of a kid he was, photos etc...
Calling all Goth/punk/emo/alterative people I need business advice?
Okay, I have an alternative clothing and accessories shop. I would like to know of any ideas/brands/items etc that you wear or like. My way of market research.Calling all Goth/punk/emo/alterative people I need business advice?
i am not a brand persone all my clothes are custom made by my work as a favour for me it works me out cheaper and its far better quality. But Your shoes must be NEW ROCKS they have some of the best gothic/alternative shoe colections it would also be a good i dee to look at there corsets, leather jackets, belts, shin guards. As for you normal Clothes there not really any specific brands of clothes anything that gives an gothic/alternitive feeling or look will work. to give you a good idea go to http://fuckthemainstream.com/ or another place to look is at our local gothic/alternitve club pics at www.zeplins.co.za under dungeon there you will see what is wornCalling all Goth/punk/emo/alterative people I need business advice?
Not enough places sell stuff by Eternal Love. But basically, anything that is rare or unusual, yet still high quality, is great. It seems like every store sells the same Hot Topic crap. Oh, and cool shoes by Demonia would be good.
You know those little stick-on earrings little children have? If they were 1/4 the size, black, sparkly, and came in crescent moon and star shapes, I would most definitely buy them. That way I could accent my face or arms, or make patterns out of them - I've been waiting for years to see if anyone would make any.
Morbid Threads, I like Manic Panic products too
i like the little things like jelly braceletts,cherry acessories,incents,anything w/ faries,band t-shirts,knee high boots,stars anything w/ stars on it,cute undies,stickers for the car,studed bracelets,fish net stockings,hair dye,skate shoes,hello kitty,strawberry shortcake,glitter makeup,silver jewlry,patches for clothing,belts,handbags,ect... I LOVE THIS STUFF...
lip service!! You gotta have Lip Service (goth attire)! Good luck with your new venture. I hope it is successful for you!
I like many of the items offered at www.hottopic.com. Perhaps you can get some ideas there.
yeah, that's the way to go.
'; goth, punk, emo, and alternative ';
hahaha.
sike.
I'll pray for you
Im Christian
oh yea get
Napolion Dynamite stuff
I thought the idea behind being alternative was to NOT to purchase by brands or specific styles... You kids these days. Why, when I was a teenage goth, we just went to the flea markets. Grabbing anything from huge sweaters that reached our knees to chipped, pealing, eighties cicle belts.
Definately invest in Noir Leather. Very sexy, very popular.
The black wide legged pants are a huge fan of mine. Of course they have to have the chain belt.
studs
i am not a brand persone all my clothes are custom made by my work as a favour for me it works me out cheaper and its far better quality. But Your shoes must be NEW ROCKS they have some of the best gothic/alternative shoe colections it would also be a good i dee to look at there corsets, leather jackets, belts, shin guards. As for you normal Clothes there not really any specific brands of clothes anything that gives an gothic/alternitive feeling or look will work. to give you a good idea go to http://fuckthemainstream.com/ or another place to look is at our local gothic/alternitve club pics at www.zeplins.co.za under dungeon there you will see what is wornCalling all Goth/punk/emo/alterative people I need business advice?
Not enough places sell stuff by Eternal Love. But basically, anything that is rare or unusual, yet still high quality, is great. It seems like every store sells the same Hot Topic crap. Oh, and cool shoes by Demonia would be good.
You know those little stick-on earrings little children have? If they were 1/4 the size, black, sparkly, and came in crescent moon and star shapes, I would most definitely buy them. That way I could accent my face or arms, or make patterns out of them - I've been waiting for years to see if anyone would make any.
Morbid Threads, I like Manic Panic products too
i like the little things like jelly braceletts,cherry acessories,incents,anything w/ faries,band t-shirts,knee high boots,stars anything w/ stars on it,cute undies,stickers for the car,studed bracelets,fish net stockings,hair dye,skate shoes,hello kitty,strawberry shortcake,glitter makeup,silver jewlry,patches for clothing,belts,handbags,ect... I LOVE THIS STUFF...
lip service!! You gotta have Lip Service (goth attire)! Good luck with your new venture. I hope it is successful for you!
I like many of the items offered at www.hottopic.com. Perhaps you can get some ideas there.
yeah, that's the way to go.
'; goth, punk, emo, and alternative ';
hahaha.
sike.
I'll pray for you
Im Christian
oh yea get
Napolion Dynamite stuff
I thought the idea behind being alternative was to NOT to purchase by brands or specific styles... You kids these days. Why, when I was a teenage goth, we just went to the flea markets. Grabbing anything from huge sweaters that reached our knees to chipped, pealing, eighties cicle belts.
Definately invest in Noir Leather. Very sexy, very popular.
The black wide legged pants are a huge fan of mine. Of course they have to have the chain belt.
studs
What advice do you have for people that encounter a rude nurse?
Try to remember that nurses have bad days too. Be firm with the nurse in your questions and needs, if need be, request that another nurse take care of you.
If it comes to a writen comment, be careful...make it constructive. Some places will put comments in those associates files.
Things have gotten a lot more demanding for nurses, especially in places like Emergency Departments %26amp; Surgical areas. It takes a special kind of person to handle those stressors. It could be the nurse is always that way, or it could be that he/she is having that one really, really bad day. Remember they deal with life and death on a regular basis, it wears on a person.
(I've worked for a hospital for 12 years)What advice do you have for people that encounter a rude nurse?
dont be rude back they will only poke u harder with the needle.... instead let the office manager of the drs office or dr knowWhat advice do you have for people that encounter a rude nurse?
conyact the supervisor
My father had that problem in the hospital. And then the next Hospital and then the next. I finally stayed to watch when he didn't know. Turns out he was the problem not the nurses or the lady that gave him his food or the person who brought the pill cart around . He was horrible the way he talked to them. He said he was kidding but the nurses didn't take it that way. He would touch them inappropriately when they were helping him up . Racial jokes are a favorite of his, of coarse he was only joking. No wonder no one wanted to deal with him. I am just saying make sure the nurse is the problem.
Ask to speak to thier Supervisor or tell them you want someone else.They work FOR you.
I tell the Dr., the time I went there nurse was nice,
nurse are people too, they have the good day and bad days
Don't take their crap. dish it right back and ask for someone else.
Write a letter to the supervisor. They say a letter packs more punch than just a verbal complaint.
I would say try to be understanding, but if the situation is really bad, write a letter to the hospital.
Let them know they're being rude. But wait til they're done with you though. You don't want them coming at you with a hyperdermic if you've ticked them off.
Report her to her superior.
Don't loose your cool, because you're not the one who's working the graveyard shif.
Ask for a sponge bath, and then get rude back...
be understanding-nurses take alot of abuse from doctors, from other patients, from other nurses.
everyone has bad days
If it comes to a writen comment, be careful...make it constructive. Some places will put comments in those associates files.
Things have gotten a lot more demanding for nurses, especially in places like Emergency Departments %26amp; Surgical areas. It takes a special kind of person to handle those stressors. It could be the nurse is always that way, or it could be that he/she is having that one really, really bad day. Remember they deal with life and death on a regular basis, it wears on a person.
(I've worked for a hospital for 12 years)What advice do you have for people that encounter a rude nurse?
dont be rude back they will only poke u harder with the needle.... instead let the office manager of the drs office or dr knowWhat advice do you have for people that encounter a rude nurse?
conyact the supervisor
My father had that problem in the hospital. And then the next Hospital and then the next. I finally stayed to watch when he didn't know. Turns out he was the problem not the nurses or the lady that gave him his food or the person who brought the pill cart around . He was horrible the way he talked to them. He said he was kidding but the nurses didn't take it that way. He would touch them inappropriately when they were helping him up . Racial jokes are a favorite of his, of coarse he was only joking. No wonder no one wanted to deal with him. I am just saying make sure the nurse is the problem.
Ask to speak to thier Supervisor or tell them you want someone else.They work FOR you.
I tell the Dr., the time I went there nurse was nice,
nurse are people too, they have the good day and bad days
Don't take their crap. dish it right back and ask for someone else.
Write a letter to the supervisor. They say a letter packs more punch than just a verbal complaint.
I would say try to be understanding, but if the situation is really bad, write a letter to the hospital.
Let them know they're being rude. But wait til they're done with you though. You don't want them coming at you with a hyperdermic if you've ticked them off.
Report her to her superior.
Don't loose your cool, because you're not the one who's working the graveyard shif.
Ask for a sponge bath, and then get rude back...
be understanding-nurses take alot of abuse from doctors, from other patients, from other nurses.
everyone has bad days
Do you know a bible quote that encurages people to give advice and support eachother?
Romans 14:19 Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another.
1Thessalonians 5:11 Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.
The word 'edify' means encourage, lift up.Do you know a bible quote that encurages people to give advice and support eachother?
Ephesians 6:10-18,Ephesians5:15-21.I thing all the Bible just encourages people to give support to each other. It 's teaching love support each other in any circumstances....Do you know a bible quote that encurages people to give advice and support eachother?
Psalm 25. Hey, I meant to write 23, but i wrote 25 maybe that was from God to write 25.
Read Psalm 23 and 25.
I bet 25 will the the verse you'll want. I haven't read 25 so i'm gona read it now.
Get back to me if it's what you're after!
Peace!
That's a really good question because you haven't had one sarcastic answer!!
Well done %26amp; God bless xx
ROM 1:11,12 Paul was longing to see his brothers to impart a spiritual gift and for '; an interchange of encouragement';
HEB 10: 24, 25 tells us to incite to love and fine works, and not to fosake the gathering of ourselves together , and all the more so as the end draws near.
When thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren.
Proverbs 17:17 (New International Version)
New International Version (NIV)
Copyright 漏 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society
17 A friend loves at all times,
and a brother is born for adversity.
Ephesians4:11-15 (one of my favs!) ';Peace!';
Simple answer: DO AS YOU WOULD BE DONE BY.
(unless you're a sadomasochist)
Romans 13:9-10
9The commandments, ';Do not commit adultery,'; ';Do not murder,'; ';Do not steal,'; ';Do not covet,';[a] and whatever other commandment there may be, are summed up in this one rule: ';Love your neighbor as yourself.';10Love does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
Matthew 7:12
12So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.
Matthew 19:16-19
16Now a man came up to Jesus and asked, ';Teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life?'; 17';Why do you ask me about what is good?'; Jesus replied. ';There is only One who is good. If you want to enter life, obey the commandments.'; 18';Which ones?'; the man inquired.
Jesus replied, '; 'Do not murder, do not commit adultery, do not steal, do not give false testimony, 19honor your father and mother,'[a] and 'love your neighbor as yourself.'[b]';
';Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another - and all the more as you see the Day approaching.'; (Hebrews 10:25)
';I want men everywhere to lift up holy hands in prayer, without anger or disputing.'; (1 Timothy 2:8)
';Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective'; (James 5:16)
';Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen (Ephesians 4:29)
I hope these help.
1Thessalonians 5:11 Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.
The word 'edify' means encourage, lift up.Do you know a bible quote that encurages people to give advice and support eachother?
Ephesians 6:10-18,Ephesians5:15-21.I thing all the Bible just encourages people to give support to each other. It 's teaching love support each other in any circumstances....Do you know a bible quote that encurages people to give advice and support eachother?
Psalm 25. Hey, I meant to write 23, but i wrote 25 maybe that was from God to write 25.
Read Psalm 23 and 25.
I bet 25 will the the verse you'll want. I haven't read 25 so i'm gona read it now.
Get back to me if it's what you're after!
Peace!
That's a really good question because you haven't had one sarcastic answer!!
Well done %26amp; God bless xx
ROM 1:11,12 Paul was longing to see his brothers to impart a spiritual gift and for '; an interchange of encouragement';
HEB 10: 24, 25 tells us to incite to love and fine works, and not to fosake the gathering of ourselves together , and all the more so as the end draws near.
When thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren.
Proverbs 17:17 (New International Version)
New International Version (NIV)
Copyright 漏 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society
17 A friend loves at all times,
and a brother is born for adversity.
Ephesians4:11-15 (one of my favs!) ';Peace!';
Simple answer: DO AS YOU WOULD BE DONE BY.
(unless you're a sadomasochist)
Romans 13:9-10
9The commandments, ';Do not commit adultery,'; ';Do not murder,'; ';Do not steal,'; ';Do not covet,';[a] and whatever other commandment there may be, are summed up in this one rule: ';Love your neighbor as yourself.';10Love does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
Matthew 7:12
12So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.
Matthew 19:16-19
16Now a man came up to Jesus and asked, ';Teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life?'; 17';Why do you ask me about what is good?'; Jesus replied. ';There is only One who is good. If you want to enter life, obey the commandments.'; 18';Which ones?'; the man inquired.
Jesus replied, '; 'Do not murder, do not commit adultery, do not steal, do not give false testimony, 19honor your father and mother,'[a] and 'love your neighbor as yourself.'[b]';
';Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another - and all the more as you see the Day approaching.'; (Hebrews 10:25)
';I want men everywhere to lift up holy hands in prayer, without anger or disputing.'; (1 Timothy 2:8)
';Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective'; (James 5:16)
';Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen (Ephesians 4:29)
I hope these help.
Hope i could get some advice from elderly people and those who have gone through this?
recently i was harassed by a group of boys coming back from a party ,at first i thought they wanted money but later when they realized i had no money i was brutally assaulted,they raped me four of them without protection,i am 17 and i got pregnant and luckily for me than i was not infected,i am pregnant and due in about 2weeks and now its all worked up in my head like i have no money nor partner to raise this baby,i am so confused but i know the lord is alive and someone might help me,thanks for understanding my problem.Hope i could get some advice from elderly people and those who have gone through this?
elderly? ask your grand parents
You're due in 2 weeks? there's no way you can get abortion at this time its already illegal.. Adoption is still a choice if you don't love this baby somebody else can.Hope i could get some advice from elderly people and those who have gone through this?
It is a shame people didn't read the question properly and realise you are due in 2 weeks and it is therefore completely unreaonsable to suggest an abortion.
In any case, the first thing I want to say to you is congratualtions. Well done for being strong and brave enough to keep the baby, I think that is the most beautiful and in a way right thing to do. I just hope that you see a counsellor if you need to.
I am glad that you draw strength from the Lord. You must be an amazing person to put the rights of the child before any failings we might have as humans.
I suggest that you go to your church and explain the situation, your priest/pastor will find a way to get you support. If you are part of a good church you will be supported.
I am so sorry this is happened to you, but I think you are an example in your handling. I only hope that you are not bitter about the situation because you are... accepting or apathetic, or because you feel that you deserve to be treated badly. Know that God wants us all to love eachother.
Where are you? If you are in the UK there are many organisations to help you - Samaritans, women's refuge - there must be the equivalent in the USA but I guess you have to ask the right question here on YA - perhaps ask ';in X (country) what organisation are there for teenagers who need support after keeping their baby following rape?';
I share my sympathy for you. Those men were sickos. I suggest you get an abortion if yu cannot handle it
elderly? ask your grand parents
You're due in 2 weeks? there's no way you can get abortion at this time its already illegal.. Adoption is still a choice if you don't love this baby somebody else can.Hope i could get some advice from elderly people and those who have gone through this?
It is a shame people didn't read the question properly and realise you are due in 2 weeks and it is therefore completely unreaonsable to suggest an abortion.
In any case, the first thing I want to say to you is congratualtions. Well done for being strong and brave enough to keep the baby, I think that is the most beautiful and in a way right thing to do. I just hope that you see a counsellor if you need to.
I am glad that you draw strength from the Lord. You must be an amazing person to put the rights of the child before any failings we might have as humans.
I suggest that you go to your church and explain the situation, your priest/pastor will find a way to get you support. If you are part of a good church you will be supported.
I am so sorry this is happened to you, but I think you are an example in your handling. I only hope that you are not bitter about the situation because you are... accepting or apathetic, or because you feel that you deserve to be treated badly. Know that God wants us all to love eachother.
Where are you? If you are in the UK there are many organisations to help you - Samaritans, women's refuge - there must be the equivalent in the USA but I guess you have to ask the right question here on YA - perhaps ask ';in X (country) what organisation are there for teenagers who need support after keeping their baby following rape?';
I share my sympathy for you. Those men were sickos. I suggest you get an abortion if yu cannot handle it
How can older people do a better job of giving advice and guidance?
For some reason older people like giving advice and guidance. How can they do a better job at this?How can older people do a better job of giving advice and guidance?
Yahoo Answers is a good place. Especially when you you get a Best Answer 10 points. I understand Goggle, MySpace and (?) have similar BBS or blogs.How can older people do a better job of giving advice and guidance?
Hey..I'm damn good at it now...lol. Experience says it all!
Perhaps they are better at it because they have more life experience to draw from.
I'm not sure I fully understand your question. Are you asking how it is that older people give better advice than younger people, or are you asking if there is a way for older people to do a better job of giving advice. (IE make it easier to relate to, etc.)
because they have been around longer and actually know more than younger people. they have already been through just about everthing that you are going through now, so listen to them . you may find that they are right most of the time.
From life experiences, we been there. Some things we would change and always give advice to others simply to open their eyes to the youth do not see. Again, we been there in your shoes!
Yahoo Answers is a good place. Especially when you you get a Best Answer 10 points. I understand Goggle, MySpace and (?) have similar BBS or blogs.How can older people do a better job of giving advice and guidance?
Hey..I'm damn good at it now...lol. Experience says it all!
Perhaps they are better at it because they have more life experience to draw from.
I'm not sure I fully understand your question. Are you asking how it is that older people give better advice than younger people, or are you asking if there is a way for older people to do a better job of giving advice. (IE make it easier to relate to, etc.)
because they have been around longer and actually know more than younger people. they have already been through just about everthing that you are going through now, so listen to them . you may find that they are right most of the time.
From life experiences, we been there. Some things we would change and always give advice to others simply to open their eyes to the youth do not see. Again, we been there in your shoes!
Advice from people with experience?
this girl in school i know not really good she showed some signs of liking me i but now all she does is ignore me and hang on this other guy that is her friend (there not GF and BF) could she be playing hard to get she still steals a glace at me sometimes and walk really close to me (in my personal space) and brush up agaisnt me a couple of times dont know if its on purpose or what but she lets me get close enough to her to touch her
i never really talked to her or told her i like her
Today i smiled at her when we made eye contact like a light smile and she seemed to start paying more attention to me
Does she even like me when im around her she constantly (i know this is sign of nervousness but idk if its me or some one else) straightens her clothes, fix hair and kind of tilts her head in my direction doesnt look at me though
i know i should just tell her but i dont want to just throw myself out there she has to be more clear if she likes me not ignore me She acts if im invisible
tAdvice from people with experience?
since im not u, i dont know details, but i know if you really want an answer you should ask her. straight up. if she doesnt like you, then thats her problem. right now u r wasting time wondering, if u like her, ask! or ask a close friend of hers. if they talk, they will probably get the hint u like her, and she might come out a little more. one of you has to make a move before anything will happen. maybe try to start a conversation. or just say hi.sunscreen
i never really talked to her or told her i like her
Today i smiled at her when we made eye contact like a light smile and she seemed to start paying more attention to me
Does she even like me when im around her she constantly (i know this is sign of nervousness but idk if its me or some one else) straightens her clothes, fix hair and kind of tilts her head in my direction doesnt look at me though
i know i should just tell her but i dont want to just throw myself out there she has to be more clear if she likes me not ignore me She acts if im invisible
tAdvice from people with experience?
since im not u, i dont know details, but i know if you really want an answer you should ask her. straight up. if she doesnt like you, then thats her problem. right now u r wasting time wondering, if u like her, ask! or ask a close friend of hers. if they talk, they will probably get the hint u like her, and she might come out a little more. one of you has to make a move before anything will happen. maybe try to start a conversation. or just say hi.
Why is it the Bible warns us against fornication and adultery yet so many people don't heed its advice?
If we all know that fornication and adultery hurt us,as well as our children and all those around us, why do we still as a nation continue to hurt ourselves, our families and our fellow citizens?Why is it the Bible warns us against fornication and adultery yet so many people don't heed its advice?
Why do people commit murders? Why do people rape? Why do people steal? Your question is a very good one as well as the ones that I pose. The answer is that we are humans and we are not perfect and some are much less perfect than others.Why is it the Bible warns us against fornication and adultery yet so many people don't heed its advice?
Because Satan and his demons have blinded everyone to the truth. Even quite a few preachers/ministers have fallen into this trap. It's one of his oldest tricks, so he can take everyone to hell with him.
Why do you assume that everyone else in the world holds the bible in the same esteem that you do? Everyone has different beliefs and views and they need to live their lives their own way. In addition to that - people are human, fallible and make mistakes. Why is it that you don't understand that?
What are you talking about?
Because not everyone cares about what the bible says as much as you do.
It's a ';Me'; society. People are selfish and they will disregard what is right so they can have whatever it is that they want.
Now days, some people do whatever ';feels good'; no matter what the out come is. I'm sure God looks down from heaven and gets sick to his stomach. There is no biblical morals anymore. The Bible is an instuction manual for our lives and when we don't follow intructions we end up being lost, and that is a sad thing. Some people will never get on the right road again. We need to pray for our nation. It's not One Nation Under God anymore, it's a nation under whatever feels good-Do It! And that's a scary place to be.
Why do people commit murders? Why do people rape? Why do people steal? Your question is a very good one as well as the ones that I pose. The answer is that we are humans and we are not perfect and some are much less perfect than others.Why is it the Bible warns us against fornication and adultery yet so many people don't heed its advice?
Because Satan and his demons have blinded everyone to the truth. Even quite a few preachers/ministers have fallen into this trap. It's one of his oldest tricks, so he can take everyone to hell with him.
Why do you assume that everyone else in the world holds the bible in the same esteem that you do? Everyone has different beliefs and views and they need to live their lives their own way. In addition to that - people are human, fallible and make mistakes. Why is it that you don't understand that?
What are you talking about?
Because not everyone cares about what the bible says as much as you do.
It's a ';Me'; society. People are selfish and they will disregard what is right so they can have whatever it is that they want.
Now days, some people do whatever ';feels good'; no matter what the out come is. I'm sure God looks down from heaven and gets sick to his stomach. There is no biblical morals anymore. The Bible is an instuction manual for our lives and when we don't follow intructions we end up being lost, and that is a sad thing. Some people will never get on the right road again. We need to pray for our nation. It's not One Nation Under God anymore, it's a nation under whatever feels good-Do It! And that's a scary place to be.
Advice from people...?
Im a 19yo guy. never had a serious relationship or even hooked up with anyone. im a decent guy. i have had the chance to hook up before but i didnt because she was drunk n i wasnt. Do nice guys ever find a girl?Advice from people...?
Treasures are often hidden so we must be patient in finding them. :)
Any guy can find a girl but the nice guy holds off until a QUALITY girl comes around. Don't sweat it.Advice from people...?
yes!!!
i always go for a nicer lad, the bad boys arn't worth my trouble
i hope so because otherwise, nice girls like me won't have a chance. :0)
Treasures are often hidden so we must be patient in finding them. :)
Any guy can find a girl but the nice guy holds off until a QUALITY girl comes around. Don't sweat it.Advice from people...?
yes!!!
i always go for a nicer lad, the bad boys arn't worth my trouble
i hope so because otherwise, nice girls like me won't have a chance. :0)
Where can i get real advice on starting a new home base business without sales people?
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See what I mean....
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Find the type of business on the link below that best describes what it is that YOU do (or want to do). Then see how to truly use the Net to make your specific business (or business idea) thrive. http://www.wotsnext.com
As an example, take a look at how I use the above. Then see if you can fit something similar around your own area of expertise. Then all you need is a passion and some persistence. http://www.psychic-junkie.com/are-you-ps鈥?/a> This page links you to all the resources I use.Where can i get real advice on starting a new home base business without sales people?
The best advice is follow the trends and the big one right now is the wellness industry. I am telling all my friends about a new business I discovered here in Yahoo Answers. I recommend you visit the sir=te and see if it interests you.
http://www.buymynoni.comWhere can i get real advice on starting a new home base business without sales people?
Visit this site www.jobfreefamily.com/family.htm
Not sure what your asking? Whether you don't want sells people to pitch you their schpell or if you don't want to sell anything yourself? Here's some info you could check out though to see if this is what you're looking for. call at 9:00pm est time, 8:00pm CST, 7:00 MST or 6:00pm PST time 212-461-5800 pin#4433 or call1-800-378-1169 ID CODE 7973LS. What ever your looking for good luck on your journey!!!
Contact me
One of the first things I would recommend that you do is start thinking about your interests/passions... and go into an internet business that is based on that. Why? Because it makes the work a lot easier.
Answering the following questions should help you develop ideas:
1) what websites do you visit when you're just surfing online?
2) do you have pets?
3) do you play and sports?
4) do you collect anythings?
5) do you have any specialized education?
See what I mean....
After that,you've got to decide the business model that you want to use - do you want to develop you own product or do you want to be an affiliate marketer (market other peoples products)?
Then you've got to learn basic skills such as building and uploading websites, setting up autoresponders, setting up a merchant account to take orders, etc.
And then, probably the most important part... you have got to learn how to market you business. If your interested in starting up your own internet business, then I would like to recommend either one of the following great resources:
if you don't have much experience with computers and the Internet - http://www.affiliatemarketinglessons.com鈥?/a>
If you have good experience with computers and the Internet - http://www.affiliatemarketinglessons.com鈥?/a>
Be sure to check out the money back guarantees ...you simply cannot loose. They can offer such guarantees because of their success rate...
If your interested in affiliate marketing (marketing other people's products/services) then you'll want grab a copy of this book - http://www.affiliatemarketinglessons.com鈥?/a>
If your interested in joining an existing internet business, then I would recommend SFI Marketing Group (http://affiliatemarketinglessons.com/SFI鈥?/a> I would recommend that you join this opportunity either way because 1) its Free and 2) you'll learn a lot through their training.
Anyways, I hope this helps... and I wish you much success.
For more information, you can try out the International Association of Home Business Entrepreneurs - http://www.affiliatemarketinglessons.com鈥?/a>
What's your advice for people who get offended easily?
My very dear Lady, not a problem. You'd be surprised what kinds of questions get put here by mistakes. May I offer some tips?
A person who is easily offended is often bothered by other problems internally and is taking those out out on the world around them. They need to be told to stop it or to ';chill out'; when they are around their friends. Friends who enable this type of behavior aren't doing this person any good. (My cousin is like this and every now and then she needs to be reminded of how her tone and words hurt others)
Otherwise, you can look at comments in the following way:
1) Is the comment directed at me?
2) Is it affecting me?
3) Do I care that it is affecting me?
4) Am I willing at this moment to do anything about it?
5) I can walk away and not say anything.
I've found that 5 is usually the best course of action.
I hope this helps. Blessings.What's your advice for people who get offended easily?
Offend them more...
then tell them its for their own good...What's your advice for people who get offended easily?
Build a bridge and get over it, Mary !
';Don't take life so serious--it ain't nohow permanent.'; --Walt Kelly
Grow a skin!
I tell them to realize they are touchy people and they're going to need some thick skin to survive the things people will throw out there.
A person who is easily offended is often bothered by other problems internally and is taking those out out on the world around them. They need to be told to stop it or to ';chill out'; when they are around their friends. Friends who enable this type of behavior aren't doing this person any good. (My cousin is like this and every now and then she needs to be reminded of how her tone and words hurt others)
Otherwise, you can look at comments in the following way:
1) Is the comment directed at me?
2) Is it affecting me?
3) Do I care that it is affecting me?
4) Am I willing at this moment to do anything about it?
5) I can walk away and not say anything.
I've found that 5 is usually the best course of action.
I hope this helps. Blessings.What's your advice for people who get offended easily?
Offend them more...
then tell them its for their own good...What's your advice for people who get offended easily?
Build a bridge and get over it, Mary !
';Don't take life so serious--it ain't nohow permanent.'; --Walt Kelly
Grow a skin!
I tell them to realize they are touchy people and they're going to need some thick skin to survive the things people will throw out there.
Need some good advice, on People?
All the girls I know are undatable.
and I haven't had a girlfriend in quiet a while
where should i go to find somebody cool just to date and have fun with? (not looking for a soulmate)
Also how do i sorround myself with new people, some of them get really old and im tired of not doing anything because my friends are lazy.
So the Question is how and where do i go/do to find new people and maybe a girl?
Ladies where do you go to talk to guys?Need some good advice, on People?
Join a co-ed sports league.Need some good advice, on People?
I always made great friends through work. I'm not sure how old you are or what you do for fun, but the best bet is to get out and interact with other people your age. The most fun jobs I had, I worked at a movie theater and the mall. At those places you get to meet people of different ages and from different schools/towns.
If you are older, just get out and join some groups or take up a new hobby. You would be amazed at the people you will meet. Lazy friends do nothing but hold you back and drag you down.
I wouldn't suggest the internet. You need to get out and stay active. Don't limit yourself. Be bold and confident and people will gravitate to you! Good luck!!
You usually find girls at the shopping mall. At the Night Clubs. Social events that may be in town. Downtown seems to be a busy place with cool people just wandering around. And if you want a fling, you have to show girls that you are wild and spontaneous and that you are in the moment type of guy. No romance that just attracts girls who want relationships.
i go to church to find guys. that way i find the Lord and some decent people
i'm married and have been with my husband for 11 years. throughout our marriage i've stumbled upon some really hot guys, absolute gentlemen and def dating material. i usually let the single girls in the office know where i found them. they're everywheres. you can meet new people in the strangest places. for instance...golf course, grocery stores, bars, anywhere and everywhere. i'm pretty friendly and social so people aren't too afraid to say hi to me. and i usually smile alot. good luck.
um well i would say go to parties....and clubs...if your old enough...especially if your looking for someone just to have a good time with...than if that doesnt help be extremly outgoing and make new friends and get them to introduce you to some people you could have fun with
msn
The internet is always a good place to meet new girls and you can meet lots of ppl from everywhere. Try goign to online dating sites and I'm sure you'll find some very interesting cool ppl.
and I haven't had a girlfriend in quiet a while
where should i go to find somebody cool just to date and have fun with? (not looking for a soulmate)
Also how do i sorround myself with new people, some of them get really old and im tired of not doing anything because my friends are lazy.
So the Question is how and where do i go/do to find new people and maybe a girl?
Ladies where do you go to talk to guys?Need some good advice, on People?
Join a co-ed sports league.Need some good advice, on People?
I always made great friends through work. I'm not sure how old you are or what you do for fun, but the best bet is to get out and interact with other people your age. The most fun jobs I had, I worked at a movie theater and the mall. At those places you get to meet people of different ages and from different schools/towns.
If you are older, just get out and join some groups or take up a new hobby. You would be amazed at the people you will meet. Lazy friends do nothing but hold you back and drag you down.
I wouldn't suggest the internet. You need to get out and stay active. Don't limit yourself. Be bold and confident and people will gravitate to you! Good luck!!
You usually find girls at the shopping mall. At the Night Clubs. Social events that may be in town. Downtown seems to be a busy place with cool people just wandering around. And if you want a fling, you have to show girls that you are wild and spontaneous and that you are in the moment type of guy. No romance that just attracts girls who want relationships.
i go to church to find guys. that way i find the Lord and some decent people
i'm married and have been with my husband for 11 years. throughout our marriage i've stumbled upon some really hot guys, absolute gentlemen and def dating material. i usually let the single girls in the office know where i found them. they're everywheres. you can meet new people in the strangest places. for instance...golf course, grocery stores, bars, anywhere and everywhere. i'm pretty friendly and social so people aren't too afraid to say hi to me. and i usually smile alot. good luck.
um well i would say go to parties....and clubs...if your old enough...especially if your looking for someone just to have a good time with...than if that doesnt help be extremly outgoing and make new friends and get them to introduce you to some people you could have fun with
msn
The internet is always a good place to meet new girls and you can meet lots of ppl from everywhere. Try goign to online dating sites and I'm sure you'll find some very interesting cool ppl.
Do you feel that advice from older people carries a special weight because of their greater experience?
Sometimes. It really depends on the question asked. Someone older is more experienced, and can provide pretty good advise, because they've lived it or dealt with the issue on one level or another. However, there are some things that are better applied to younger people. I guess it is a matter of what the question is, to start with.Do you feel that advice from older people carries a special weight because of their greater experience?
Yes its called experience and maturity! They have already made the mistakes trying to save you the trouble!Do you feel that advice from older people carries a special weight because of their greater experience?
Yes. Older people have experienced many things in life.
well, even when they're more experienced, they're advices don't always apply to the real world. Like, don't ask your grandpa what to wear on your first date. But they sometimes give you good advices about the moral stuff. I always think old-school morals are better. It's not that I think girls should stay home and be the man's slave, but I do think that girls should be a little bit, just a little bit more shy and don't approach guy as easy as they do now. And guess what, I'm a girl.
Yes. Another reason for this is that the younger you are the more self-centered you are. And this is completely natural so I am not knocking on the youngins, though I may be considered one at the age of 27. As you are more aware of others (especially after being married and becoming a parent) you can look at circumstances more objectively.
you got that rightsunscreen
Yes its called experience and maturity! They have already made the mistakes trying to save you the trouble!Do you feel that advice from older people carries a special weight because of their greater experience?
Yes. Older people have experienced many things in life.
well, even when they're more experienced, they're advices don't always apply to the real world. Like, don't ask your grandpa what to wear on your first date. But they sometimes give you good advices about the moral stuff. I always think old-school morals are better. It's not that I think girls should stay home and be the man's slave, but I do think that girls should be a little bit, just a little bit more shy and don't approach guy as easy as they do now. And guess what, I'm a girl.
Yes. Another reason for this is that the younger you are the more self-centered you are. And this is completely natural so I am not knocking on the youngins, though I may be considered one at the age of 27. As you are more aware of others (especially after being married and becoming a parent) you can look at circumstances more objectively.
you got that right
Serious people only....Anyone having twins who already has a 1yr old please give advice?
I am pregnant with twins. Though it is a medical miracle seeing I wasn't on fertility pills or anything I am apprehensive about having twins. Honestly was anticipating one more. Feeling overwhelmed about jumping from having one kid 2 3. Anyone got any good avice.Serious people only....Anyone having twins who already has a 1yr old please give advice?
Well, I don't know about advice, but I can tell you twin pregnancy is so completely different than a singleton. You have double the nausea, you'll have ligament pain (the uterus stretching), you will deliver earlier than with a singleton. Most c-sections or inductions are performed around 36 weeks of pregnancy. You'll probably end up on bed rest before all is said and done, but maybe not. The main thing in the beginning is to know that if you have morning sickness in pregnancy, you are going to have it twice as bad and yes, this is normal. The next thing to watch for is ligament pain and who knows from there. Every pregnancy is different. Keep in close contact with your doctor and remember to try your very very best to make it at least 34 weeks. That's when the babies are first able to breath on their own. The longer they stay in, the better their chances of not having to be in NICU. My daughter is having identical twin boys....without fertility drugs as well...due anytime now!
Well, I don't know about advice, but I can tell you twin pregnancy is so completely different than a singleton. You have double the nausea, you'll have ligament pain (the uterus stretching), you will deliver earlier than with a singleton. Most c-sections or inductions are performed around 36 weeks of pregnancy. You'll probably end up on bed rest before all is said and done, but maybe not. The main thing in the beginning is to know that if you have morning sickness in pregnancy, you are going to have it twice as bad and yes, this is normal. The next thing to watch for is ligament pain and who knows from there. Every pregnancy is different. Keep in close contact with your doctor and remember to try your very very best to make it at least 34 weeks. That's when the babies are first able to breath on their own. The longer they stay in, the better their chances of not having to be in NICU. My daughter is having identical twin boys....without fertility drugs as well...due anytime now!
Computer generated translations aren't usually comprehensible.So why do people give advice saying to use them
Whoever directs you to a computer generated translation is someone that is either monolingual or doesn't have clue on how to translate. Such advises should always be rejected.Computer generated translations aren't usually comprehensible.So why do people give advice saying to use them
babelfish works for meComputer generated translations aren't usually comprehensible.So why do people give advice saying to use them
because the have no education in that language, and haven't tried it themselves, and therefore don't realize that phrases you get from translators like ';you stay him'; don't really make sense
translators can work if you have a background knowledge in that language..you have to know how to use them. you have to know what form of a verb to use and not to use words with more than one meaning...i use them sometimes as a dictionary because my spanish/english dictionary is packed up right now to move back to school
I think the people who advice using them are mostly people who don't have enough knowledge of another language to see how incredibly poor those translations are.
For those who think that a poor translations is better than none... if you write in Icelandic ';Who owns this book?'; and make a computer translate it you get the translation ';Hot spring river this book?'; Is that a useful translation? Not at all. You'd be better off looking every word up in a dictionary where you can actually read the multiple meanings of the words you need to translate and see which one fits the context the best. More work, but MUCH better results.
It's still a better alternative than not to translate at all.
Computer translation is in its infancy. Who knows here it'll go.
It's very difficult to find good translators. Also, it's very boring work. The caveats regarding machine translation have been made by others. It's good to get machines to do all that they can - you free the humans for the really demanding jobs.
babelfish works for meComputer generated translations aren't usually comprehensible.So why do people give advice saying to use them
because the have no education in that language, and haven't tried it themselves, and therefore don't realize that phrases you get from translators like ';you stay him'; don't really make sense
translators can work if you have a background knowledge in that language..you have to know how to use them. you have to know what form of a verb to use and not to use words with more than one meaning...i use them sometimes as a dictionary because my spanish/english dictionary is packed up right now to move back to school
I think the people who advice using them are mostly people who don't have enough knowledge of another language to see how incredibly poor those translations are.
For those who think that a poor translations is better than none... if you write in Icelandic ';Who owns this book?'; and make a computer translate it you get the translation ';Hot spring river this book?'; Is that a useful translation? Not at all. You'd be better off looking every word up in a dictionary where you can actually read the multiple meanings of the words you need to translate and see which one fits the context the best. More work, but MUCH better results.
It's still a better alternative than not to translate at all.
Computer translation is in its infancy. Who knows here it'll go.
It's very difficult to find good translators. Also, it's very boring work. The caveats regarding machine translation have been made by others. It's good to get machines to do all that they can - you free the humans for the really demanding jobs.
Why are so many people terrible advice givers on here, when people ask sincere questions?
It is sad...is it not?
Again, this is a site that anyone can have access to. So you get both kind of people in here. People who only want to give 'clever' answers and think that they are being funny, and also people who really care and want to make a difference.
There are also people that you try the best you can in order to help them and spend an hour of your precious time in order to give them a well-thought answer,-despite the fact that you do not know them- and they do not appreciate it especially if they do not like your answer. However, the point is to do your best and pass your message, especially when you see things about them that they themselves are not able to see. This is the only thing you can do, whether they want to correct themselves or not, depends merely on them.
If you want to receive serious answers only, you are in the wrong forum. If you are looking for people who really want to help out, I suggest you should visit http://www.vanpraagh.com a spiritual site with people who are spending hours and hours to think on your problem and give you a sincere answer. It has really helped me too. They also made me ponder on WHO I actually am, and now I know what my faults are and try to improve them.
There are also people who are bored to THINK...(I honestly feel sorry for them) they come in here in order to have fun only. FUN is good, but it should be used in moderation especially when other people suffer and are looking for a sincere answer to their problem.
It is a matter of Ego. They want to project themselves in the World, and feel that other people accept them. The lower their self-esteem the higher their efforts of being the centre of attention. I have seen it in some members of my family, and I keep seeing it around me every day. At the same time, they minimise somebody else's worth because they do not want to be left behind. They become defensive and try to project their own opinion, most of the times by shouting...some of them will even stand in front you and hide you from the person you were talking to, and try to take over the discussion. All of this because of the inferiority complex. And they do not realise unfortunately that they do manage to project themselves, but in the most NEGATIVE way possible. You may have realised that the people who really have an impact on others, are the ones who are being calm and quiet, they do respect another person's opinion, and have manners. The good qualities always outweigh the negative ones.
Have you seen 'The Last Samurai' with Tom Cruise? If you have, then you know what I mean if I talk about 'Taka' the Japanese girl.
Some people also, do not have any target in their lives. They think that they have come to Earth only to have fun and do not care about other people's problems, because they have always been self-centered and therefore do not know how it is like to have a problem. They are being insensitive and think that everything is a joke. Most of them are people who feel secure because they might be living on expense of others, most of the time they come from rich families, they never had to work hard and therefore do not know how it is like to worry about things. This could be one example. Generally, when you have something filled in your life, you cannot understand the lack of it that somebody else may have...
I hope I have helped somehow.
Love,
Natalie:0)Why are so many people terrible advice givers on here, when people ask sincere questions?
because a lot of them are in their teens and have little life experience. They either want to be jokers or advise on things they know little about. It is new experience for themWhy are so many people terrible advice givers on here, when people ask sincere questions?
Because if you are seeking advise from people you don't know then you really need help.
Because the questions are sooooooooooooooo terrible.
do not cry when the sun sets at the end of the day, for your sadness will not let you enjoy the beauty of the stars
Now hold on my friend. I've seen many people who really had a go I mean nasty goes at some people who just felt like being funny and humorous that day and been in a good mood and just wanted to show you the less serious side of things but some people just get so angry like someone had poked them in the eye. Hey take it easy and chill out a bit. Life is not all about being serious and conservative and withdrawals. Ask a question and take whatever answers you like and just let other people with funny side see the other answers which you may categorise as irrelevant and/or sincere. Stop complaining for god's sake. Life is too short to be so miserable and serious. Let your hair down sometimes and just go in front of the mirror and laugh loud for no reason and see your mood afterwards. Cheer up.
Mainly as they have never been through what the other person has, and give some half a***d or insulting advice
Maybe the questions that are asked are total rubbish.
Oh and I'm not reffering to your ';what colour (color) eyes do you have? because that was so sincere and probing.
Ps mine are blue how about you lovely boy?
coz they are Divs
Lots of them can't be bothered to phrase their question so as to make it readable let alone understandable, and then to make matters worse they can't even be bothered to spell-check it.
There ARE those of us out here who have respect for the English language and don't constantly use phrases like ';know what I mean?'; or ';at the end of the day';, so when I, for one, see an almost unintelligible question I make a dive for it, give it the sort of answer it deserves, and collect the two points thank you!
Cause some of them are sarcastic assholes, i've asked questions before, such as 'where can i get a good digital camera from for under 拢80' And some people gave good nice answers and one person said get off your fatass and look for one.
Like i felt like replying saying eff you to her because for one i don't have a fatAss and for 2 im asking on here cause i couldn't find a good one in the shops.
Because there are a lot of people who's main reason for answering a question is to get the two points. They just answer questions with the quickest answer possible some of them not even bothering to read past the first line. Even more annoying is when people respond with ';I don't know'; - what is the point in that? I think its really terrible when people are asking sincere questions and some idiot responds with an answer they obviously find hilarious. Yahoo answers is a really good, useful site and its a shame some people don't use it properly. I've had to remove questions in the past because I've got nothing but stupid answers.
Lighten up, anyone asking sincere life changing questions on an internet forum packed full of Yanks deserve ridiculous answers. As do you, for not having the intelligence to realise some people have a sense of humour and take this site for what it should be, a light hearted distraction from work. Get out and meet people, make friends and then ask your 'friends' for advice..... geek.
because they just like to piss about and be irritating, perhaps they have no lives so their answers reflect that when they have nothing constructive to say.
Some people genuinely don't know, but think they are being helpful.
Some people do not wish to be helpful.
Some people want 2points.
Some people are rubbish at advice because they don't handle their own lives very well.
Some people think they're funny when they're not.
Some people are funny but their humour is misplaced, as they are answering a serious question.
Some people are irritated by the question itself as they think it's stupid or offensive.
But look on the bright side... some people are very good and giving advice. Just be glad of the few good answers you get lol, just to remind you there are some good people left out there...
advice is not a command. you can take it or leave it. many people seem to be seeking answers to their own stuff too so you get their baggage thrown in for the ride sometimes. if you have serious issues there's nothing better than professional advice. if you don't pay you don't get better i guess lol
Oooh... er.. yes.. tricky one this...maybe if we imagine a sparrow... or a gull flying... no, walking through a house... no, flying is better, through a house, or a flat.... er.... and there is some windows.. right? Well imagine a sea shore inna caribean, ok? Listen, advise, yeah? ... Its mostly free......
maybe they just want the points?
Because their tiny little minds do not allow them to understand what a person is ging through. It is totally disrespectful and child like but I'm afraid that is what society has become.Have faith there are still decent people out there so for every dumba** you get 3 or 4 real replies.
Some sad people think it is funny.
They have no friends and for them the internet is their little kingdom where they can be 'brave'.
They are the sort of people are very brave in a crowd and run away from all sorts on their own. Ignore them - everyone else in their life does - it's why they are that way.
Well you are partly responsible for asking you twonk.
You only need ONE good answer, right?
ppl can only tell u wot they have been thru...some express it a lil more sanely than others-all in all its like a gamble-a game-the point system says 2points no matter the quality or quantity of the answer.
the counter for points within the person, cud encourage them to give better answers without getting sad that they havent won a single best answer yet!
like me i jus hope ppl get helped or can cook something new or can laugh a lil inspite of their experiences , wen i answer-man ,was this too long?
That's what I'm asking.. Don't waste your time if you don't bother to give real answers.. :| And don't bother to waste your time asking sillly questions.
Don't know
I don't know but that's being very unfair
Again, this is a site that anyone can have access to. So you get both kind of people in here. People who only want to give 'clever' answers and think that they are being funny, and also people who really care and want to make a difference.
There are also people that you try the best you can in order to help them and spend an hour of your precious time in order to give them a well-thought answer,-despite the fact that you do not know them- and they do not appreciate it especially if they do not like your answer. However, the point is to do your best and pass your message, especially when you see things about them that they themselves are not able to see. This is the only thing you can do, whether they want to correct themselves or not, depends merely on them.
If you want to receive serious answers only, you are in the wrong forum. If you are looking for people who really want to help out, I suggest you should visit http://www.vanpraagh.com a spiritual site with people who are spending hours and hours to think on your problem and give you a sincere answer. It has really helped me too. They also made me ponder on WHO I actually am, and now I know what my faults are and try to improve them.
There are also people who are bored to THINK...(I honestly feel sorry for them) they come in here in order to have fun only. FUN is good, but it should be used in moderation especially when other people suffer and are looking for a sincere answer to their problem.
It is a matter of Ego. They want to project themselves in the World, and feel that other people accept them. The lower their self-esteem the higher their efforts of being the centre of attention. I have seen it in some members of my family, and I keep seeing it around me every day. At the same time, they minimise somebody else's worth because they do not want to be left behind. They become defensive and try to project their own opinion, most of the times by shouting...some of them will even stand in front you and hide you from the person you were talking to, and try to take over the discussion. All of this because of the inferiority complex. And they do not realise unfortunately that they do manage to project themselves, but in the most NEGATIVE way possible. You may have realised that the people who really have an impact on others, are the ones who are being calm and quiet, they do respect another person's opinion, and have manners. The good qualities always outweigh the negative ones.
Have you seen 'The Last Samurai' with Tom Cruise? If you have, then you know what I mean if I talk about 'Taka' the Japanese girl.
Some people also, do not have any target in their lives. They think that they have come to Earth only to have fun and do not care about other people's problems, because they have always been self-centered and therefore do not know how it is like to have a problem. They are being insensitive and think that everything is a joke. Most of them are people who feel secure because they might be living on expense of others, most of the time they come from rich families, they never had to work hard and therefore do not know how it is like to worry about things. This could be one example. Generally, when you have something filled in your life, you cannot understand the lack of it that somebody else may have...
I hope I have helped somehow.
Love,
Natalie:0)Why are so many people terrible advice givers on here, when people ask sincere questions?
because a lot of them are in their teens and have little life experience. They either want to be jokers or advise on things they know little about. It is new experience for themWhy are so many people terrible advice givers on here, when people ask sincere questions?
Because if you are seeking advise from people you don't know then you really need help.
Because the questions are sooooooooooooooo terrible.
do not cry when the sun sets at the end of the day, for your sadness will not let you enjoy the beauty of the stars
Now hold on my friend. I've seen many people who really had a go I mean nasty goes at some people who just felt like being funny and humorous that day and been in a good mood and just wanted to show you the less serious side of things but some people just get so angry like someone had poked them in the eye. Hey take it easy and chill out a bit. Life is not all about being serious and conservative and withdrawals. Ask a question and take whatever answers you like and just let other people with funny side see the other answers which you may categorise as irrelevant and/or sincere. Stop complaining for god's sake. Life is too short to be so miserable and serious. Let your hair down sometimes and just go in front of the mirror and laugh loud for no reason and see your mood afterwards. Cheer up.
Mainly as they have never been through what the other person has, and give some half a***d or insulting advice
Maybe the questions that are asked are total rubbish.
Oh and I'm not reffering to your ';what colour (color) eyes do you have? because that was so sincere and probing.
Ps mine are blue how about you lovely boy?
coz they are Divs
Lots of them can't be bothered to phrase their question so as to make it readable let alone understandable, and then to make matters worse they can't even be bothered to spell-check it.
There ARE those of us out here who have respect for the English language and don't constantly use phrases like ';know what I mean?'; or ';at the end of the day';, so when I, for one, see an almost unintelligible question I make a dive for it, give it the sort of answer it deserves, and collect the two points thank you!
Cause some of them are sarcastic assholes, i've asked questions before, such as 'where can i get a good digital camera from for under 拢80' And some people gave good nice answers and one person said get off your fatass and look for one.
Like i felt like replying saying eff you to her because for one i don't have a fatAss and for 2 im asking on here cause i couldn't find a good one in the shops.
Because there are a lot of people who's main reason for answering a question is to get the two points. They just answer questions with the quickest answer possible some of them not even bothering to read past the first line. Even more annoying is when people respond with ';I don't know'; - what is the point in that? I think its really terrible when people are asking sincere questions and some idiot responds with an answer they obviously find hilarious. Yahoo answers is a really good, useful site and its a shame some people don't use it properly. I've had to remove questions in the past because I've got nothing but stupid answers.
Lighten up, anyone asking sincere life changing questions on an internet forum packed full of Yanks deserve ridiculous answers. As do you, for not having the intelligence to realise some people have a sense of humour and take this site for what it should be, a light hearted distraction from work. Get out and meet people, make friends and then ask your 'friends' for advice..... geek.
because they just like to piss about and be irritating, perhaps they have no lives so their answers reflect that when they have nothing constructive to say.
Some people genuinely don't know, but think they are being helpful.
Some people do not wish to be helpful.
Some people want 2points.
Some people are rubbish at advice because they don't handle their own lives very well.
Some people think they're funny when they're not.
Some people are funny but their humour is misplaced, as they are answering a serious question.
Some people are irritated by the question itself as they think it's stupid or offensive.
But look on the bright side... some people are very good and giving advice. Just be glad of the few good answers you get lol, just to remind you there are some good people left out there...
advice is not a command. you can take it or leave it. many people seem to be seeking answers to their own stuff too so you get their baggage thrown in for the ride sometimes. if you have serious issues there's nothing better than professional advice. if you don't pay you don't get better i guess lol
Oooh... er.. yes.. tricky one this...maybe if we imagine a sparrow... or a gull flying... no, walking through a house... no, flying is better, through a house, or a flat.... er.... and there is some windows.. right? Well imagine a sea shore inna caribean, ok? Listen, advise, yeah? ... Its mostly free......
maybe they just want the points?
Because their tiny little minds do not allow them to understand what a person is ging through. It is totally disrespectful and child like but I'm afraid that is what society has become.Have faith there are still decent people out there so for every dumba** you get 3 or 4 real replies.
Some sad people think it is funny.
They have no friends and for them the internet is their little kingdom where they can be 'brave'.
They are the sort of people are very brave in a crowd and run away from all sorts on their own. Ignore them - everyone else in their life does - it's why they are that way.
Well you are partly responsible for asking you twonk.
You only need ONE good answer, right?
ppl can only tell u wot they have been thru...some express it a lil more sanely than others-all in all its like a gamble-a game-the point system says 2points no matter the quality or quantity of the answer.
the counter for points within the person, cud encourage them to give better answers without getting sad that they havent won a single best answer yet!
like me i jus hope ppl get helped or can cook something new or can laugh a lil inspite of their experiences , wen i answer-man ,was this too long?
That's what I'm asking.. Don't waste your time if you don't bother to give real answers.. :| And don't bother to waste your time asking sillly questions.
Don't know
I don't know but that's being very unfair
Do you have advice for people who never find a partner?
for every lonely guy theres a lonely girlDo you have advice for people who never find a partner?
Never... do you mean they've died single? If they are still living there is still hope.
I would say be happy with yourself. Learn to love yourself and keep your standards high, realize lots of people have partners and are miserable. so, why be miserable? don't settle for less...Do you have advice for people who never find a partner?
Stop looking so hard, Let them find you
I have the same problem as you, but as I get older (I'm 45), I find it less of a problem. I work with 4 other females in my department, all of them married, and all they do is complain about their husbands. When I hear them complain, I'm secretly grateful that I can come and go as I please, do as I please, buy what I please, etc. I spend 18 years with parents telling me what to do, why would I want a spouse telling me what to do for the rest of my life? It can be lonely, though, and I do go on dates with guys I meet from dating sites, and they're all pretty much duds, but it makes for interesting conversation around the water cooler the next day! Relax, don't be too hard on yourself, and enjoy your freedom!
don't stop looking!
Pray about it. Don't look for love, rather let love come to you. Just live your life true to yourself. Someone wonderful will see that in you and will want to be with you.
Best wishes!
Start finding so smartly and fast
Moving fast
am in the same boat as u
Don't try so hard. Desperate is not a quality a partner is looking for. Put your attention to bettering something in your life or achieving something and being successful. Just the idea of success makes a person present themselves differently. Note, I did not mention the success, just the idea of it. It is your body language and mental well being that pushes away or brings some one near you.
You are saying this now...but eventually...you will find what god created for you...your soulmate...
Until then stay tune :)
one day you gona find your other half
I am one of the most unattractive women you will ever see, yet I have never been alone or without a partner for very long. And that just proves that there is someone, lots of someones, for everyone. What I am SAYING is that you will find one, just relax...you and they will find your ways.
You need to put yourself into places where you will meet more possible partners. Try ballroom dancing classes or something similar.
Don't complain
Switch Hands Every Once and A While or dress one hand in makeup and string hair and have fun.
Never... do you mean they've died single? If they are still living there is still hope.
I would say be happy with yourself. Learn to love yourself and keep your standards high, realize lots of people have partners and are miserable. so, why be miserable? don't settle for less...Do you have advice for people who never find a partner?
Stop looking so hard, Let them find you
I have the same problem as you, but as I get older (I'm 45), I find it less of a problem. I work with 4 other females in my department, all of them married, and all they do is complain about their husbands. When I hear them complain, I'm secretly grateful that I can come and go as I please, do as I please, buy what I please, etc. I spend 18 years with parents telling me what to do, why would I want a spouse telling me what to do for the rest of my life? It can be lonely, though, and I do go on dates with guys I meet from dating sites, and they're all pretty much duds, but it makes for interesting conversation around the water cooler the next day! Relax, don't be too hard on yourself, and enjoy your freedom!
don't stop looking!
Pray about it. Don't look for love, rather let love come to you. Just live your life true to yourself. Someone wonderful will see that in you and will want to be with you.
Best wishes!
Start finding so smartly and fast
Moving fast
am in the same boat as u
Don't try so hard. Desperate is not a quality a partner is looking for. Put your attention to bettering something in your life or achieving something and being successful. Just the idea of success makes a person present themselves differently. Note, I did not mention the success, just the idea of it. It is your body language and mental well being that pushes away or brings some one near you.
You are saying this now...but eventually...you will find what god created for you...your soulmate...
Until then stay tune :)
one day you gona find your other half
I am one of the most unattractive women you will ever see, yet I have never been alone or without a partner for very long. And that just proves that there is someone, lots of someones, for everyone. What I am SAYING is that you will find one, just relax...you and they will find your ways.
You need to put yourself into places where you will meet more possible partners. Try ballroom dancing classes or something similar.
Don't complain
Switch Hands Every Once and A While or dress one hand in makeup and string hair and have fun.
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How to stop masturbation? seriously, I want to stop. Catholics other Christians religious people, any advice?
i know why i do it. I am a very self-conscious 21-year old woman, afriad that i will be alone the rest of my life (I've never dated, and never had mutual feelings for a guy... usually it's the ';i like them, but they don't me'; situation) and that i will never find that special guy. I can fight myself for hours, days even, and I still fall into it. Why? Why can't I control myself? usually i fall hardest when I feel dirty. I was able to not do it for 2 years, and I fell back into it. Even praying doesn't seem to always help. Doing it caused me to fall into a depression, and I just want to stop altogether, because I don't want to be miserable and hating myself for it anymore. As a Catholic, it goes against my values so I want to stop. I'm hurting my future husband, my friends, God, and myself. I hate having to confess it to my priest everytime i mess up. I want to stop, and I don't want people to tell me it's okay to do. for me, it's not. Any advice/techniques/suggestions, please?How to stop masturbation? seriously, I want to stop. Catholics other Christians religious people, any advice?
Go to confession- you need to start there. Masturbation is an addiction...you need to start with GRACE to overcome it.
If you are uncomfortable saying you masturbated, tell father ';Iwas impure with myself'; he'll get it. You need to tell him it has been a problem for you so he can give you good guidance.
Pray the rosary. It is a powerful tool against evil. Remember, Mary was a mortal like us, but she kept herself free from sin. She will help you.How to stop masturbation? seriously, I want to stop. Catholics other Christians religious people, any advice?
Go to a bar with a friend (girl) and find someone you like. Ask him if he wants to sleep with you (there are a lot of men in bars who would gladly accept your proposition). When you want to masturbate yourself again go to another bar and do it again. Do it alone doesn't make it less sin than doing it with another man. When you find someone stop it. It's better not to have fun alone. Finally, Religion %26amp; Spirituality section is not the right place to make these questions :-P
I understand that you do not want people to tell you ';it's OK, go ahead and masturbate.'; For you, you do not feel it is an option, your value system does not allow for such.
However, sex is a ';God'; given gift. It is not to be used lightly and there are responsibilities that go with the territory. Sex is also part of any healthy persons life. Whether it be through masturbation or intercourse with another person, it is necessary for healthy functioning.
Compare it to food. You need food but there are healthy and unhealthy eating habits. If you don't eat you will die. You may not die from lack of sex but stress is very detrimental to ones overall health and may lead to premature death, sexual release is a great stress reliever.
I strongly urge you, as others that have answered this question have, to seek a mental health counselor. Many churches offer this for their members. The advantage is counseling is done in support of your value system. You may be very surprised as I don't think the Catholic church condemns masturbation they way it has in the past. Also, you can make changes in your value system.
Good luck.
Peace.
It's questions like this that make me feel nothing but pity for such devout people. I can tell that this really is making you miserable. I'm not going to mock you, but you'll probably take it that way because I'm not going to give you the answer you're looking for.
Stop suffering over doing something natural. I'm not telling you to give up your faith, even though your faith is not my faith. Maybe god isn't answering your prayers because you AREN'T hurting god by masturbating. Before you convince yourself that you're hurting god, your future husband, and even your friends, ask yourself how this is so? The only person you're hurting right now is yourself, and not through the act of masturbation, but because of your crippling guilt over it.
Even if you want to take every rule given in the scriptures as absolute, unchanging law (the last I knew, the Catholic church approved of evaluating the Bible in a historical and metaphorical context rather than 100% literal and current), there is nothing in the Bible that condemns female masturbation. In fact, the Bible has *very* little to say about female sexuality at all. Most of the sexual rules in the Bible are geared towards men, with the exception of bestiality and adultery (the later of which could still be argued to be geared towards men). The only condemnation of masturabtion is based on the wasting of men's semen. I don't believe we should think of things that way today, but even if you want to take the Bible literally, there is nothing wrong with a woman masturbating. You have nothing that's going to waste by the act.
There are so many more meaningful things that you can devote your energy to expressing your faith than condemning yourself for engaging in a harmless, natural act. Please think of focusing on loving your god instead of crippling yourself with guilt, or spending time trying to stop poverty and hunger instead of trying and failing to stop an urge that, as a human, you will never really be able to overcome, nor should you have to.
A perfect example of how religion stunts the normal sexual development of adults
Here is a 21 year old women who's tormented because she wants to touch her own body. HER OWN BODY!
I respect your very adult decision to not have sex until marriage, it is a wise choice. I do not understand how masturbation interferes with that decision?
Since you didn't ask my opinion as a Pantheist on how to stop, I won't offer one. But I would be interested in the response of Christians that view masturbation as sinful.
Frankly masturbation is a healthy outlet for sexuality that doesn't promote promiscuity or adultery. It won't result in pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. Sometimes common sense should be used in place of religious dogma. Would it be alright if the Pope said you could do it?
look deeply into your soul and your reason, and find one very good reason why it is actually bad to masturbate.
if you find one (i'm sorry) but if you do, think about that reason every time you want to do this.
if you don't find one (hooray!) then keep at it and use what ';god gave you.';
Go to confession when you've fallen, but go regularly. Ask Jesus' mother to pray for you. Fast specifically for the grace and love of God. If you fall deeper in love with God, you will have the strength to resist the flesh.
Woody Allen said the definitive remark about masturbation which is that ';The nice thing about masturbation is that it means that you are always having sex with somebody who loves you '; Sadly in your case I don't think that any of us believe that to be true. Although I am an atheist I do realize that religion can and does often have a positive value in the lives of individuals.In your case I don't think that is true .I think think that your religious beliefs are doing damage to you. My suggestion to you is to seek out a competent mental health professional to deal with your depression and it's causes You may even want to ask your priest for a referral to a therapist that can help you within the parameters of Catholicism
Hang in there
...you are experiencing the high cost of Pascal's purportedly 'free' wager. Have you ever asked yourself why you believe what you believe? Maybe you're wrong and there's nothing wrong with it. Do you blindly believe all men who wear dresses, or just the ones who stand at the pulpit?
1. stop believing in the imaginary sky man
2. get laid.
This is called an addiction. I hope I have quit masturbating. I have not masturbated for 4 months now. It was very difficult for me to do as well. You are correct to feel guilty about masturbating because it is a sin to give in to your lustful temptations. Probably the hardest thing about this for me was that most everyone around me believes that this action is not sinful. What helped me was to dedicate my computer to Mary. My computer was the source of pornography for me. When i finally got all the porn out of it and replaced it all with holy articles and pictures, it was a big part of the battle. I would have been very sorry to get rid of my computer completely. I also went to confession every time I did it. This helped to mold my behavior. You must continue to pray as well. Ive met some priests who told me that this was not a mortal sin. Be careful of any priests who teach against the Catholic Church. They are confused. Continue to confess this every time. This is a very important thing to do. Also, I set up sessions with the priest outside of the confessional to seek his counseling. Perhaps the priest can help you by counseling you or recommending someone who would be appropriate to do so.
In short, continue to pray. Go to confession every time you commit this sin, and don't forget to do a careful examination of your conscience. Remove yourself from anything that leads you to this sin (porn, other people who encourage it, situations that encourage your depression or lust). Find a good counselor who believes as we do.
I know that this is very difficult to do. Quitting smoking was easier for me to do than this. I will tell you that although I sometimes suffer from this temptation, quitting doing it has changed my life for the better. I feel great. It is like a great weight has been lifted from my shoulders. After i type this i will say a prayer for you and i hope you will pray for me as well because this temptation continues to bother me.
Well I have had the same problem. I feel guilty, I don't want to do it again and I continue to fall back into the same trap over and over again. I like you had a ';free'; spell for about a year or more. One of the things that I have to do to start my road to recovery is realize what triggers me and tempts me to masturbate, most of the time it is choices I make with entertainment, or allowing lustful thoughts to linger in my mind. Occasionally the drive will come out of nowhere and sometime I don't even really want to do it at all and I catch myself doing it- those are the hardest times. Basically though I think that pinpointing things that cause you to fall and start to limit your exposure to such things should help as well as developing an acountability partner. A HUGE burden was lifted off my shoulders when I actually told a friend and confessed it to someone that actually cared about me. She has sense checked up to see how I am doing many times. Also realize that guilt does not come from God, He will convict us and draw us back to Him but will never condemn us. Jesus will always be there to forgive us no matter how many times or what it was that we have done- His love and forgiveness never end, as long as we are actually making an effort to change our ways.
cut it off.
* There's nothing wrong with it.
* But then again, there's nothing wrong with sex either.
* You're not hurting anybody. If I were your future husband, why would I want you to suffer before I met you? That would make me a sadist.
* Go ahead, knock yourself out.
* Your religion makes you detail it to another person? I hope it's another woman, at least.
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Babe, Jilling off is the most natural thing in the world. Enjoy.sunscreen
Go to confession- you need to start there. Masturbation is an addiction...you need to start with GRACE to overcome it.
If you are uncomfortable saying you masturbated, tell father ';Iwas impure with myself'; he'll get it. You need to tell him it has been a problem for you so he can give you good guidance.
Pray the rosary. It is a powerful tool against evil. Remember, Mary was a mortal like us, but she kept herself free from sin. She will help you.How to stop masturbation? seriously, I want to stop. Catholics other Christians religious people, any advice?
Go to a bar with a friend (girl) and find someone you like. Ask him if he wants to sleep with you (there are a lot of men in bars who would gladly accept your proposition). When you want to masturbate yourself again go to another bar and do it again. Do it alone doesn't make it less sin than doing it with another man. When you find someone stop it. It's better not to have fun alone. Finally, Religion %26amp; Spirituality section is not the right place to make these questions :-P
I understand that you do not want people to tell you ';it's OK, go ahead and masturbate.'; For you, you do not feel it is an option, your value system does not allow for such.
However, sex is a ';God'; given gift. It is not to be used lightly and there are responsibilities that go with the territory. Sex is also part of any healthy persons life. Whether it be through masturbation or intercourse with another person, it is necessary for healthy functioning.
Compare it to food. You need food but there are healthy and unhealthy eating habits. If you don't eat you will die. You may not die from lack of sex but stress is very detrimental to ones overall health and may lead to premature death, sexual release is a great stress reliever.
I strongly urge you, as others that have answered this question have, to seek a mental health counselor. Many churches offer this for their members. The advantage is counseling is done in support of your value system. You may be very surprised as I don't think the Catholic church condemns masturbation they way it has in the past. Also, you can make changes in your value system.
Good luck.
Peace.
It's questions like this that make me feel nothing but pity for such devout people. I can tell that this really is making you miserable. I'm not going to mock you, but you'll probably take it that way because I'm not going to give you the answer you're looking for.
Stop suffering over doing something natural. I'm not telling you to give up your faith, even though your faith is not my faith. Maybe god isn't answering your prayers because you AREN'T hurting god by masturbating. Before you convince yourself that you're hurting god, your future husband, and even your friends, ask yourself how this is so? The only person you're hurting right now is yourself, and not through the act of masturbation, but because of your crippling guilt over it.
Even if you want to take every rule given in the scriptures as absolute, unchanging law (the last I knew, the Catholic church approved of evaluating the Bible in a historical and metaphorical context rather than 100% literal and current), there is nothing in the Bible that condemns female masturbation. In fact, the Bible has *very* little to say about female sexuality at all. Most of the sexual rules in the Bible are geared towards men, with the exception of bestiality and adultery (the later of which could still be argued to be geared towards men). The only condemnation of masturabtion is based on the wasting of men's semen. I don't believe we should think of things that way today, but even if you want to take the Bible literally, there is nothing wrong with a woman masturbating. You have nothing that's going to waste by the act.
There are so many more meaningful things that you can devote your energy to expressing your faith than condemning yourself for engaging in a harmless, natural act. Please think of focusing on loving your god instead of crippling yourself with guilt, or spending time trying to stop poverty and hunger instead of trying and failing to stop an urge that, as a human, you will never really be able to overcome, nor should you have to.
A perfect example of how religion stunts the normal sexual development of adults
Here is a 21 year old women who's tormented because she wants to touch her own body. HER OWN BODY!
I respect your very adult decision to not have sex until marriage, it is a wise choice. I do not understand how masturbation interferes with that decision?
Since you didn't ask my opinion as a Pantheist on how to stop, I won't offer one. But I would be interested in the response of Christians that view masturbation as sinful.
Frankly masturbation is a healthy outlet for sexuality that doesn't promote promiscuity or adultery. It won't result in pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. Sometimes common sense should be used in place of religious dogma. Would it be alright if the Pope said you could do it?
look deeply into your soul and your reason, and find one very good reason why it is actually bad to masturbate.
if you find one (i'm sorry) but if you do, think about that reason every time you want to do this.
if you don't find one (hooray!) then keep at it and use what ';god gave you.';
Go to confession when you've fallen, but go regularly. Ask Jesus' mother to pray for you. Fast specifically for the grace and love of God. If you fall deeper in love with God, you will have the strength to resist the flesh.
Woody Allen said the definitive remark about masturbation which is that ';The nice thing about masturbation is that it means that you are always having sex with somebody who loves you '; Sadly in your case I don't think that any of us believe that to be true. Although I am an atheist I do realize that religion can and does often have a positive value in the lives of individuals.In your case I don't think that is true .I think think that your religious beliefs are doing damage to you. My suggestion to you is to seek out a competent mental health professional to deal with your depression and it's causes You may even want to ask your priest for a referral to a therapist that can help you within the parameters of Catholicism
Hang in there
...you are experiencing the high cost of Pascal's purportedly 'free' wager. Have you ever asked yourself why you believe what you believe? Maybe you're wrong and there's nothing wrong with it. Do you blindly believe all men who wear dresses, or just the ones who stand at the pulpit?
1. stop believing in the imaginary sky man
2. get laid.
This is called an addiction. I hope I have quit masturbating. I have not masturbated for 4 months now. It was very difficult for me to do as well. You are correct to feel guilty about masturbating because it is a sin to give in to your lustful temptations. Probably the hardest thing about this for me was that most everyone around me believes that this action is not sinful. What helped me was to dedicate my computer to Mary. My computer was the source of pornography for me. When i finally got all the porn out of it and replaced it all with holy articles and pictures, it was a big part of the battle. I would have been very sorry to get rid of my computer completely. I also went to confession every time I did it. This helped to mold my behavior. You must continue to pray as well. Ive met some priests who told me that this was not a mortal sin. Be careful of any priests who teach against the Catholic Church. They are confused. Continue to confess this every time. This is a very important thing to do. Also, I set up sessions with the priest outside of the confessional to seek his counseling. Perhaps the priest can help you by counseling you or recommending someone who would be appropriate to do so.
In short, continue to pray. Go to confession every time you commit this sin, and don't forget to do a careful examination of your conscience. Remove yourself from anything that leads you to this sin (porn, other people who encourage it, situations that encourage your depression or lust). Find a good counselor who believes as we do.
I know that this is very difficult to do. Quitting smoking was easier for me to do than this. I will tell you that although I sometimes suffer from this temptation, quitting doing it has changed my life for the better. I feel great. It is like a great weight has been lifted from my shoulders. After i type this i will say a prayer for you and i hope you will pray for me as well because this temptation continues to bother me.
Well I have had the same problem. I feel guilty, I don't want to do it again and I continue to fall back into the same trap over and over again. I like you had a ';free'; spell for about a year or more. One of the things that I have to do to start my road to recovery is realize what triggers me and tempts me to masturbate, most of the time it is choices I make with entertainment, or allowing lustful thoughts to linger in my mind. Occasionally the drive will come out of nowhere and sometime I don't even really want to do it at all and I catch myself doing it- those are the hardest times. Basically though I think that pinpointing things that cause you to fall and start to limit your exposure to such things should help as well as developing an acountability partner. A HUGE burden was lifted off my shoulders when I actually told a friend and confessed it to someone that actually cared about me. She has sense checked up to see how I am doing many times. Also realize that guilt does not come from God, He will convict us and draw us back to Him but will never condemn us. Jesus will always be there to forgive us no matter how many times or what it was that we have done- His love and forgiveness never end, as long as we are actually making an effort to change our ways.
cut it off.
* There's nothing wrong with it.
* But then again, there's nothing wrong with sex either.
* You're not hurting anybody. If I were your future husband, why would I want you to suffer before I met you? That would make me a sadist.
* Go ahead, knock yourself out.
* Your religion makes you detail it to another person? I hope it's another woman, at least.
go read http://girlwithaonetrackmind.blogspot.co鈥?/a> from start to finish.
Babe, Jilling off is the most natural thing in the world. Enjoy.
How do you feel about EUSING REGISTRY CLEANER? some people say to use it and some say no! what advice can you?
give me? will it hurt my pc?How do you feel about EUSING REGISTRY CLEANER? some people say to use it and some say no! what advice can you?
I have used it with great success on about 100 machines with not one problem.
I have heard of people that don't like it but when I ask what problems they have had they are very non-specific with their answers. Or they have heard that someone else had a problem so they won't use it.How do you feel about EUSING REGISTRY CLEANER? some people say to use it and some say no! what advice can you?
CCleaner with its default settings is safe, and free.
www.ccleaner.com
But really, any 'Registry Cleaner' that merely removes entries that point to missing files is safe.
Rule Number 1: NEVER TOUCH THE REGISTRY IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT IS OR HOW IT EFFECTS WINDOWS.
Now,
I don't recommend using Registry Cleaner. However what I do use is called CCleaner (Crap Cleaner). It decrapifies your PC safely without any need to worry about screwing up something. It also allows you to clean the registry. I have never had any problems with the registry cleaner on it, but it is recommended that you backup the registry when it prompts you (just in case :).
One tip with CCleaner. Just use the basic settings. Don't change anything along the lines of 'Advanced'.
Get it here:
http://www.ccleaner.com/download/downloading
If I were you I would use CCleaner to clean up my registry. It's free and does a fantastic job. If you're paranoid it will also make a back up for you...
I have used it with great success on about 100 machines with not one problem.
I have heard of people that don't like it but when I ask what problems they have had they are very non-specific with their answers. Or they have heard that someone else had a problem so they won't use it.How do you feel about EUSING REGISTRY CLEANER? some people say to use it and some say no! what advice can you?
CCleaner with its default settings is safe, and free.
www.ccleaner.com
But really, any 'Registry Cleaner' that merely removes entries that point to missing files is safe.
Rule Number 1: NEVER TOUCH THE REGISTRY IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT IS OR HOW IT EFFECTS WINDOWS.
Now,
I don't recommend using Registry Cleaner. However what I do use is called CCleaner (Crap Cleaner). It decrapifies your PC safely without any need to worry about screwing up something. It also allows you to clean the registry. I have never had any problems with the registry cleaner on it, but it is recommended that you backup the registry when it prompts you (just in case :).
One tip with CCleaner. Just use the basic settings. Don't change anything along the lines of 'Advanced'.
Get it here:
http://www.ccleaner.com/download/downloading
If I were you I would use CCleaner to clean up my registry. It's free and does a fantastic job. If you're paranoid it will also make a back up for you...
Dont make the mistake of asking advice here, people make inaccurate & mean assumptions about you.?
i believe we all know that we are the only 1's who can make our own choices, but this is just seeking advice %26amp; there is no reason people should assume other details %26amp; then tell you how you SHOULD feel. i DO NOT shuffle men in %26amp; out of my childrens lives, %26amp; yes you CAN luv more than 1 person as there are differrent kinds %26amp; depths of loves with many reasons why. praise those who answer from their hearts, minds %26amp; experience. i have not screwed with anyone's feelings %26amp; have had my share of trauma %26amp; had no choice but to grow up at a VERY young age, NOT even referring to my 8yr marriage %26amp; first child at 17, but LONG b4 then. my 16, 13 %26amp; 7yr old knew my current b4 it was a relationship. my oldest 2 are from my marriage, my youngest from a sad loser i was with for 5yrs(at least i was blessed w/ her) this is the 4th major relationship i have ever been in, this current 1. there was truly no good reason to have an EX-fiance, too many things were happening %26amp; we made a mistake 2 let it go this farDont make the mistake of asking advice here, people make inaccurate %26amp; mean assumptions about you.?
This isn't a question my dear, instead it sounds like a plea from your heart for people to be understanding because you have had several relationships with Losers and must have thought each relationship was the Right one seeings you had children. If that's what your asking people to see its been being seen by Millions of women just like you every day. You are not alone , I myself have 6 children with 4 different Fathers and although the relationships were bad doesn't mean I regret having ANY of my children with these men. Heck girl you can't make everyone happy, why you even trying? And last I checked we weren't here to please all the people who are saying nasty things to you, do you HONESTLY think their any better with their Mightier than thou attitudes? People who act like this are USUALLY just trying to draw attention away from them and their nasty, dirty, little secrets!! I always tell people that judge me '; I have strong shoulders pick away, at least your leaving someone who doesn't have strong shoulders alone.'; You have the right attitude so just let what they say fly by you like a fart in the wind because that's all people like that are able to produce ';NASTY GAS';Dont make the mistake of asking advice here, people make inaccurate %26amp; mean assumptions about you.?
how long did it take you to find that out?
well, everyone has their own opinions on here, and some of it you may not agree with, or then again, may not even like. If you find it offensive and wrong then do not post on here and ask for peoples opinions. It is that easy...
I think I am missing a prior post.
Is there a question hidden among the semi literate mass of wailing I see before me?
don't let a few bad apples make us all look bad gypsystarr. Many good ppl on here,..i think that some really care about others,..i know i do. If i can give any advise to anyone that ends up helping them in some way,..then it made my time on here worth it. I do wish you the best of luck,..you are in a bad situation. good luck.
Your deserve alot for saying that. I really see where your comming from. Some people, just have no idea how hard life can be, til they go through lots of truama,heartaches, %26amp; experiences.!!!!!!. They realize one day, when everything,is out of sorts for them.
SORRY, I MUST HAVE MISSED SOMETHING, TOO.
SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE DEFENSIVE AND BITTER.
DID YOU TAKE SOMETHING SOMEONE SAID AS A PERSONAL ATTACK?
HAVING TOO MUCH RESPONSIBILITY TOO SOON IS THE CONSEQUENCE IF ACTING IRRESPOSIBLY......
AND YOU DO NOT GROW UP FASTER.....YOU ACTUALLY STUNT YOUR MENTAL GROWTH, BECAUSE YOU PUT YOURSELF IN A POSITION THAT DID NOT ALLOW YOU TO EXPERIENCE AS MUCH AS OTHERS YOUR AGE (BECAUSE YOU WERE BOGGED DOWN FROM RESPONSIBILITIES).
YOU HAVE A LOT OF BAGGAGE THAT YOU NEED TO DROP OFF. IT IS HINDERING YOUR GROWTH AND WISDOM. CARRYING BAGGAGE IS LIKE PICKING UP POOP AND PUTTING IT IN YOUR POCKET. IT BEGINS TO STINK AND OTHER PEOPLE AVOID YOU.
GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO BE WRONG. YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO BE A PROFESSIONAL VICTIM. POOR YOU. NO ONE CARES. GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON.
EACH ';MISTAKE'; IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO IMPROVE SOMETHING, OVERCOME SOMETHING, AND LEARN SOMETHING. YOU WILL GAIN WISDOM IF YOU RESOLVE TO REALIZE THAT YOUR WAY DOESN'T ALWAYS WORK, AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY RATHER THAN BLAMING OTHERS FOR YOUR DEMISE.
YOU ONLY DATED A FEW GUYS, SO IT'S UNDERSTANDABLE YOU HAVE HAD LITTLE EXPERIENCE WITH MEN AND WERE EASILY DUPED. EACH GUY TEACHES YOU MORE ABOUT YOURSELF, SO DATE MANY. AND DON'T ALLOW YOURSELF TO BECOME EMOTIONALLY INVESTED IN THE GUYS WHO'S ACTIONS DO NOT MATCH HOW THEY SAY THEY FEEL ABOUT YOU.
REMEMBER THAT YOU HAVE KIDS NOW. THEY ARE MONITORING YOU 24-7. SHOW THEM HOW RESPECTABLE, RESPONSIBLE PRODUCTIVE ADULTS BEHAVE. BE CAREFUL WHAT KINDS OF MESSAGES YOUR BEHAVIOR SENDS THEM.
RELAX AND REALIZE THAT 90% OF YOUR ATTITUDE IS HOW YOU HANDLE THE 10% OF THINGS IN LIFE YOU CANNOT CONTROL.....
Never give up! Keep looking and trying and you will get what you're looking for..Good luck, I'm rootin' for you..At least you're trying..
This isn't a question my dear, instead it sounds like a plea from your heart for people to be understanding because you have had several relationships with Losers and must have thought each relationship was the Right one seeings you had children. If that's what your asking people to see its been being seen by Millions of women just like you every day. You are not alone , I myself have 6 children with 4 different Fathers and although the relationships were bad doesn't mean I regret having ANY of my children with these men. Heck girl you can't make everyone happy, why you even trying? And last I checked we weren't here to please all the people who are saying nasty things to you, do you HONESTLY think their any better with their Mightier than thou attitudes? People who act like this are USUALLY just trying to draw attention away from them and their nasty, dirty, little secrets!! I always tell people that judge me '; I have strong shoulders pick away, at least your leaving someone who doesn't have strong shoulders alone.'; You have the right attitude so just let what they say fly by you like a fart in the wind because that's all people like that are able to produce ';NASTY GAS';Dont make the mistake of asking advice here, people make inaccurate %26amp; mean assumptions about you.?
how long did it take you to find that out?
well, everyone has their own opinions on here, and some of it you may not agree with, or then again, may not even like. If you find it offensive and wrong then do not post on here and ask for peoples opinions. It is that easy...
I think I am missing a prior post.
Is there a question hidden among the semi literate mass of wailing I see before me?
don't let a few bad apples make us all look bad gypsystarr. Many good ppl on here,..i think that some really care about others,..i know i do. If i can give any advise to anyone that ends up helping them in some way,..then it made my time on here worth it. I do wish you the best of luck,..you are in a bad situation. good luck.
Your deserve alot for saying that. I really see where your comming from. Some people, just have no idea how hard life can be, til they go through lots of truama,heartaches, %26amp; experiences.!!!!!!. They realize one day, when everything,is out of sorts for them.
SORRY, I MUST HAVE MISSED SOMETHING, TOO.
SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE DEFENSIVE AND BITTER.
DID YOU TAKE SOMETHING SOMEONE SAID AS A PERSONAL ATTACK?
HAVING TOO MUCH RESPONSIBILITY TOO SOON IS THE CONSEQUENCE IF ACTING IRRESPOSIBLY......
AND YOU DO NOT GROW UP FASTER.....YOU ACTUALLY STUNT YOUR MENTAL GROWTH, BECAUSE YOU PUT YOURSELF IN A POSITION THAT DID NOT ALLOW YOU TO EXPERIENCE AS MUCH AS OTHERS YOUR AGE (BECAUSE YOU WERE BOGGED DOWN FROM RESPONSIBILITIES).
YOU HAVE A LOT OF BAGGAGE THAT YOU NEED TO DROP OFF. IT IS HINDERING YOUR GROWTH AND WISDOM. CARRYING BAGGAGE IS LIKE PICKING UP POOP AND PUTTING IT IN YOUR POCKET. IT BEGINS TO STINK AND OTHER PEOPLE AVOID YOU.
GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO BE WRONG. YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO BE A PROFESSIONAL VICTIM. POOR YOU. NO ONE CARES. GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON.
EACH ';MISTAKE'; IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO IMPROVE SOMETHING, OVERCOME SOMETHING, AND LEARN SOMETHING. YOU WILL GAIN WISDOM IF YOU RESOLVE TO REALIZE THAT YOUR WAY DOESN'T ALWAYS WORK, AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY RATHER THAN BLAMING OTHERS FOR YOUR DEMISE.
YOU ONLY DATED A FEW GUYS, SO IT'S UNDERSTANDABLE YOU HAVE HAD LITTLE EXPERIENCE WITH MEN AND WERE EASILY DUPED. EACH GUY TEACHES YOU MORE ABOUT YOURSELF, SO DATE MANY. AND DON'T ALLOW YOURSELF TO BECOME EMOTIONALLY INVESTED IN THE GUYS WHO'S ACTIONS DO NOT MATCH HOW THEY SAY THEY FEEL ABOUT YOU.
REMEMBER THAT YOU HAVE KIDS NOW. THEY ARE MONITORING YOU 24-7. SHOW THEM HOW RESPECTABLE, RESPONSIBLE PRODUCTIVE ADULTS BEHAVE. BE CAREFUL WHAT KINDS OF MESSAGES YOUR BEHAVIOR SENDS THEM.
RELAX AND REALIZE THAT 90% OF YOUR ATTITUDE IS HOW YOU HANDLE THE 10% OF THINGS IN LIFE YOU CANNOT CONTROL.....
Never give up! Keep looking and trying and you will get what you're looking for..Good luck, I'm rootin' for you..At least you're trying..
A little advice from people.?
Recently i sold my car because i couldn't pay my damn insurance Since I鈥檓 a full time student and i have no time for a full time job in order to pay for my car. . Funny thing is that i'w been driving only for 6 month and if you interested my insurance was 8000$ (NYC), but that's not a question, my question is is there any possible way to make insurance at list 2000$ legally or illegally well not like illegally you know what I mean. Thank you for your help.A little advice from people.?
Sorry, are you looking for a way to get an insurance policy that costs $2,000 a year or less? If so, the answer is maybe not. New York is highly regulated, from the insurance point of view (blame the Democrats!!)
The best way to cut your insurance expenses is to buy a car that's over four years old, pay cash for it, and carry minimum liability limits only. Depending on your driving record, that might not help enough, but it's the best you can do.A little advice from people.?
well, as the other person said, best bet is to get out of the NY area...and it's got nothing to do with the democrats but everything to do with the number of risks in that state. the number of auto insurance fraud claims and stolen auto's in that state is astronomical. your best bet is either to depend on public transportation, or if you really want a car in that area, get an older vehicle, possibly get liability only to save yourself the cost and just absorb any first party damage you may have if you get into an accident. get a vehicle with as many safety features as you can afford, or if you still live at home, see if you can get a vehicle added to their policy and see if you could pay them to help you out until you get old enough for your rates to be just a little bit lower. so sorry...blame the crime syndicates...not the democrats. good luck!
Holy crap! Get out of NY. Your rates are high because you are an inexperienced driver and a risk by insurance standards.
Sorry, are you looking for a way to get an insurance policy that costs $2,000 a year or less? If so, the answer is maybe not. New York is highly regulated, from the insurance point of view (blame the Democrats!!)
The best way to cut your insurance expenses is to buy a car that's over four years old, pay cash for it, and carry minimum liability limits only. Depending on your driving record, that might not help enough, but it's the best you can do.A little advice from people.?
well, as the other person said, best bet is to get out of the NY area...and it's got nothing to do with the democrats but everything to do with the number of risks in that state. the number of auto insurance fraud claims and stolen auto's in that state is astronomical. your best bet is either to depend on public transportation, or if you really want a car in that area, get an older vehicle, possibly get liability only to save yourself the cost and just absorb any first party damage you may have if you get into an accident. get a vehicle with as many safety features as you can afford, or if you still live at home, see if you can get a vehicle added to their policy and see if you could pay them to help you out until you get old enough for your rates to be just a little bit lower. so sorry...blame the crime syndicates...not the democrats. good luck!
Holy crap! Get out of NY. Your rates are high because you are an inexperienced driver and a risk by insurance standards.
Need fast advice!!!! cummon people!!!!?
Im gonna be talking to this guy on the phone... and I can't seem to keep up the convo!!! I know i know ask him questions about his day and about him... but I've ased so many already!!... any other tips???Need fast advice!!!! cummon people!!!!?
noNeed fast advice!!!! cummon people!!!!?
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try talking about current news events, hobbies you both have in common, his friends and family, what he thinks about (insert subject here)?
the choice is yours pick a subject you know well and talk about it with him.
easy ask open ended questions that force him to answer with something besides yes or no. ask about family, friends, wildest thing he's ever done, what does he want to accomplish in his life, what are his interests, what does he like in women, what doesn't he like in women, best vacation, things that get him talking and then respond in kind and remember if he is interested he will ask you questions too. so ask him questions and then say things that will get him to ask you a question.
turn the conversation around ';Tell '; him to talk to you about himself. Such as what is going on with you ?....Why ?
Ask about his past,where did he go to school?
Ask about his family,how big?how many?what are they like?
Ask about his pets,did he have any?what kind?
Ask about where he's been,for how long?and when?
If your interested in him,why are you not interested in all about him.
After the past try asking about his present,and then you could delve into his future plans.
could ask him about the future what he dreams of etc. could ask him his favorite stuff music sexual positions whateva . could tell him some jokes or something too
guys love to talk about work,sports,sex
let him do the talking and respond to whatever he says
bingo!
convo matches and gasoline!
I've had phone conversations that have lasted for like 7 hours. And yea I know what you mean about keeping up your side of the convo. But after you ask him about his day and things like that. I say dive into some general topics, see what he has views on and then that way he can see what you feel strongly about as well. Trust me many guys want to hear a chick's opinion about things. Lets them know they aren't dealing with a airhead or someone that will always agree with them all the time.
Talking in the phone is one great thing, I speak for hours together.. It's very easy to keep the convo going on and on.. First ask him what you mentioned, like how was the day and all.. Then ask him about his day plan and if you really care about him, ask him if he ate well what he had, where all he went.. Usually guys do start all these.. Then you tell what all you did, and tell him if you had any problems.. What ever it is tell him (only if you trust him sooooooo much). Then talk about future plan and about the weekend. Try to listen to him very well and ask him about it on what ever he is saying with much interest. All depends on what type of relationship you are going to have with him.... Good luck :-)
Why dont you just continue the conversation instead of just asking him new ones. You will find that it will lead to other things naturally. If you try too hard by trying to ask new questions all the time it's not a real conversation it's more like a question and answer session. Hardly sexy or romantic
ask him somethink personal, and ask mistery question it good to be kind of u know on the phone. some time.
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try talking about current news events, hobbies you both have in common, his friends and family, what he thinks about (insert subject here)?
the choice is yours pick a subject you know well and talk about it with him.
easy ask open ended questions that force him to answer with something besides yes or no. ask about family, friends, wildest thing he's ever done, what does he want to accomplish in his life, what are his interests, what does he like in women, what doesn't he like in women, best vacation, things that get him talking and then respond in kind and remember if he is interested he will ask you questions too. so ask him questions and then say things that will get him to ask you a question.
turn the conversation around ';Tell '; him to talk to you about himself. Such as what is going on with you ?....Why ?
Ask about his past,where did he go to school?
Ask about his family,how big?how many?what are they like?
Ask about his pets,did he have any?what kind?
Ask about where he's been,for how long?and when?
If your interested in him,why are you not interested in all about him.
After the past try asking about his present,and then you could delve into his future plans.
could ask him about the future what he dreams of etc. could ask him his favorite stuff music sexual positions whateva . could tell him some jokes or something too
guys love to talk about work,sports,sex
let him do the talking and respond to whatever he says
bingo!
convo matches and gasoline!
I've had phone conversations that have lasted for like 7 hours. And yea I know what you mean about keeping up your side of the convo. But after you ask him about his day and things like that. I say dive into some general topics, see what he has views on and then that way he can see what you feel strongly about as well. Trust me many guys want to hear a chick's opinion about things. Lets them know they aren't dealing with a airhead or someone that will always agree with them all the time.
Talking in the phone is one great thing, I speak for hours together.. It's very easy to keep the convo going on and on.. First ask him what you mentioned, like how was the day and all.. Then ask him about his day plan and if you really care about him, ask him if he ate well what he had, where all he went.. Usually guys do start all these.. Then you tell what all you did, and tell him if you had any problems.. What ever it is tell him (only if you trust him sooooooo much). Then talk about future plan and about the weekend. Try to listen to him very well and ask him about it on what ever he is saying with much interest. All depends on what type of relationship you are going to have with him.... Good luck :-)
Why dont you just continue the conversation instead of just asking him new ones. You will find that it will lead to other things naturally. If you try too hard by trying to ask new questions all the time it's not a real conversation it's more like a question and answer session. Hardly sexy or romantic
ask him somethink personal, and ask mistery question it good to be kind of u know on the phone. some time.
Why do people turn to Yahoo Answers for advice to LIFE ALTERING situations?
Am I pregnant?
I want to kill myself
My wife is cheating on me
etc...Why do people turn to Yahoo Answers for advice to LIFE ALTERING situations?
I guess because they second guess themselves about the response or reaction they should take. Sometimes as human nature has it, you want to feel you are always right and to those people it seems easier to come here and ask a stranger they do not have any connection towards instead of asking someone who knows them better.
Read you later!Why do people turn to Yahoo Answers for advice to LIFE ALTERING situations?
The way i see it, or feel. Its better.easier for me to talk about such problems with people i dont know, and wont ever that way they dont judge you, and people are str8 up honest most of the time on here. Some people have no one to talk to. So this helps. Gives you advice fromall different type of people from all over. But yiah , i dont know. lol.
Because honestly (in my opinion) they are stupid......
I can't stand the questions that are
';Am I pregnant?';
I have been tempted many times to put if you had sex and female there is a strong possibility that you are DUH!!!!!!! Especially if you didn't use protection.......
At least I am not the only one that wonder why people post this type of questions
to get other ppls opinions.. and because its easier and faster to get somewhat okay answers. somtimes.. and sometimes they are lying.. and sometimes they are too shy to ask a real person they know..
they can get opinions and advice from people all over the place that might have good things to say. plus they might get more perspectives from people they might not normally talk to in real life.
probably because this is Q/A %26amp; people feel they may get the help they need, even it comes from an uneducated or a mean source %26amp; it,s annonomous.
Because they can't afford ';professional'; help.
I think because it is safe %26amp; annonamous.
I want to kill myself
My wife is cheating on me
etc...Why do people turn to Yahoo Answers for advice to LIFE ALTERING situations?
I guess because they second guess themselves about the response or reaction they should take. Sometimes as human nature has it, you want to feel you are always right and to those people it seems easier to come here and ask a stranger they do not have any connection towards instead of asking someone who knows them better.
Read you later!Why do people turn to Yahoo Answers for advice to LIFE ALTERING situations?
The way i see it, or feel. Its better.easier for me to talk about such problems with people i dont know, and wont ever that way they dont judge you, and people are str8 up honest most of the time on here. Some people have no one to talk to. So this helps. Gives you advice fromall different type of people from all over. But yiah , i dont know. lol.
Because honestly (in my opinion) they are stupid......
I can't stand the questions that are
';Am I pregnant?';
I have been tempted many times to put if you had sex and female there is a strong possibility that you are DUH!!!!!!! Especially if you didn't use protection.......
At least I am not the only one that wonder why people post this type of questions
to get other ppls opinions.. and because its easier and faster to get somewhat okay answers. somtimes.. and sometimes they are lying.. and sometimes they are too shy to ask a real person they know..
they can get opinions and advice from people all over the place that might have good things to say. plus they might get more perspectives from people they might not normally talk to in real life.
probably because this is Q/A %26amp; people feel they may get the help they need, even it comes from an uneducated or a mean source %26amp; it,s annonomous.
Because they can't afford ';professional'; help.
I think because it is safe %26amp; annonamous.
I need advice from people?
I can't seem to get a girlfriend. I'm 16. All the girls that I have liked have usually not liked me back. Sometimes I'll hear things about a girl liking me but I don't take it seriously. I don't think I'm that bad looking and I don't want to be alone for ever! Please HelpI need advice from people?
All u have 2 do is be ur self, a girl who likes u for who u are will come, and when she does it will be worth the wait. So just ignore the people. And dont worry ur dream girl is out their.
All u have 2 do is be ur self, a girl who likes u for who u are will come, and when she does it will be worth the wait. So just ignore the people. And dont worry ur dream girl is out their.
Dont make the mistake of asking advice here, people make inaccurate & mean assumptions about you.?
i believe we all know that we are the only 1's who can make our own choices, but this is just seeking advice %26amp; there is no reason people should assume other details %26amp; then tell you how you SHOULD feel. i DO NOT shuffle men in %26amp; out of my childrens lives, %26amp; yes you CAN luv more than 1 person as there are differrent kinds %26amp; depths of loves with many reasons why. praise those who answer from their hearts, minds %26amp; experience. i have not screwed with anyone's feelings %26amp; have had my share of trauma %26amp; had no choice but to grow up at a VERY young age, NOT even referring to my 8yr marriage %26amp; first child at 17, but LONG b4 then. my 16, 13 %26amp; 7yr old knew my current b4 it was a relationship. my oldest 2 are from my marriage, my youngest from a sad loser i was with for 5yrs(at least i was blessed w/ her) this is the 4th major relationship i have ever been in, this current 1. there was truly no dood reason to have an EX-fiance, too many things were happening %26amp; we made a mistake 2 let it go this farDont make the mistake of asking advice here, people make inaccurate %26amp; mean assumptions about you.?
I know what you mean about people making mean assumptions about you. I just had a person (calling herself notanlines007) really hurt me just because I used one inappropriate word...even though my question was about protecting my daughter's innocense. Hang in there. I raised my sons by myself and had two daughters after that. I grew up at a young age too, with no real guidance, just learning by experience. You're not alone. I wish you the best.Dont make the mistake of asking advice here, people make inaccurate %26amp; mean assumptions about you.?
People are just jealous that you were able to juggle so many human experiences. Maybe...
Well what don't hurt u makes u strong and i think ur a strong woman :-)
How did anyone get the idea that you were a loser? I'm shocked.
Preach on sister! I agree 100%. People don't know everything and they can be very rude and inconsiderate! Don't take it to heart! People are stupid! I feel for your situation!
I know what you mean about people making mean assumptions about you. I just had a person (calling herself notanlines007) really hurt me just because I used one inappropriate word...even though my question was about protecting my daughter's innocense. Hang in there. I raised my sons by myself and had two daughters after that. I grew up at a young age too, with no real guidance, just learning by experience. You're not alone. I wish you the best.Dont make the mistake of asking advice here, people make inaccurate %26amp; mean assumptions about you.?
People are just jealous that you were able to juggle so many human experiences. Maybe...
Well what don't hurt u makes u strong and i think ur a strong woman :-)
How did anyone get the idea that you were a loser? I'm shocked.
Preach on sister! I agree 100%. People don't know everything and they can be very rude and inconsiderate! Don't take it to heart! People are stupid! I feel for your situation!
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