Best advice from people who've been scared....and been there!!?

Hi,


I'm 23 and have been with my fiance' for 9 years..


My problem is I've never climaxed.I'm too scared.


He starts by playing with my clit..until my legs get shaky


and I get a really cold sensation.When that happens,I make him stop.What is wrong with me?I really want to let go and just c*m!He always tells me ';Baby I want You To C*m,So Bad';!


I've heard that you ';should'; masterbate to reach for the first time.I'm not comfortable with touching myself..I Love a Mans touch!





Advice PLEASE!!!Thanks..Best advice from people who've been scared....and been there!!?
Get yourself a vibrator. You won't have to touch yourself and it'll send you through the roof. That'll get you started. Soon you'll learn to be comfortable with that part of your sexuality and it'll help your sex life tremendously and bring you even closer to your fiance. Orgasms are beautiful and natural. Don't be scared or ashamed. Our Victorian society is what makes you scared and afraid. God gave us orgasms to enjoy...so head to Sharper Image. They have a cordless handheld massager that works great and you don't have to go to one of those NASTY adult stores.





Good luck, relax and just try to enjoy yourself.Best advice from people who've been scared....and been there!!?
Dear Miss. With all due respect, you have not said what you are afraid of. Are you afraid of losing control? Are you afraid of having a heart attack? Are you afraid of too much pleasure? Or, are you not allowing yourself to climax because it is a control issue between you and your boyfriend. Go see a good sex therapist, and all your answers will come to you.
just do it .... he will like it ... thats what guys live for!