Need advice here people?

Well i am very good friends with a girl called Lucy. I have known for her 3 years now. After knowing her for about 1 year i started to have feelings for her. I hid it from her since i did not really want to ruin our friendship. I had told her flatmates though and i am sure that they would not have told her.


Anyways suddenly our friendship due to a few faults from my part got broken apart. For 3-4 months we did not talk to each other.


After this period she sent me a letter and told me that she wants to be my friend again.


Now we have meet each other a bit and even had a meal alone together. I am happy that we are back being friends but sadly now i have again started to have feelings for her.


I really want to get rid of this feelings but i do not know how? I just do not want it to affect our friendship again. I actually do care about her.





Also she has a bf and we are both at uni. I do not think that this relationship will last since i have noticed a few stuff that makes me wonder is she wants a steady bf or wants one just for fun. He hardly ever spends time with her apart from seeing a movie with her.





Anyways regardless of that i need to have tips to help me to get her out of mind so that i can just be a good friend with her since that is all i want from her.





Please help me Lol.Need advice here people?
Well first thing is first be honest with yourself. If your feelings are that strong then you need to let her know. Back off for a while afterwards... do some activities that keep your mind occupied. You could if you want try and find another girl to 'lust' over. Give her some time though. As soon as you tell her cool it down for a while. Only speak to her she speaks first. Until then wait it out for however long. You know her best so work it out.Need advice here people?
no one will read this and I don't mean to be rude. It's way to long darling.