recently i was harassed by a group of boys coming back from a party ,at first i thought they wanted money but later when they realized i had no money i was brutally assaulted,they raped me four of them without protection,i am 17 and i got pregnant and luckily for me than i was not infected,i am pregnant and due in about 2weeks and now its all worked up in my head like i have no money nor partner to raise this baby,i am so confused but i know the lord is alive and someone might help me,thanks for understanding my problem.Hope i could get some advice from elderly people and those who have gone through this?
elderly? ask your grand parents
You're due in 2 weeks? there's no way you can get abortion at this time its already illegal.. Adoption is still a choice if you don't love this baby somebody else can.Hope i could get some advice from elderly people and those who have gone through this?
It is a shame people didn't read the question properly and realise you are due in 2 weeks and it is therefore completely unreaonsable to suggest an abortion.
In any case, the first thing I want to say to you is congratualtions. Well done for being strong and brave enough to keep the baby, I think that is the most beautiful and in a way right thing to do. I just hope that you see a counsellor if you need to.
I am glad that you draw strength from the Lord. You must be an amazing person to put the rights of the child before any failings we might have as humans.
I suggest that you go to your church and explain the situation, your priest/pastor will find a way to get you support. If you are part of a good church you will be supported.
I am so sorry this is happened to you, but I think you are an example in your handling. I only hope that you are not bitter about the situation because you are... accepting or apathetic, or because you feel that you deserve to be treated badly. Know that God wants us all to love eachother.
Where are you? If you are in the UK there are many organisations to help you - Samaritans, women's refuge - there must be the equivalent in the USA but I guess you have to ask the right question here on YA - perhaps ask ';in X (country) what organisation are there for teenagers who need support after keeping their baby following rape?';
I share my sympathy for you. Those men were sickos. I suggest you get an abortion if yu cannot handle it
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