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try talking about current news events, hobbies you both have in common, his friends and family, what he thinks about (insert subject here)?
the choice is yours pick a subject you know well and talk about it with him.
easy ask open ended questions that force him to answer with something besides yes or no. ask about family, friends, wildest thing he's ever done, what does he want to accomplish in his life, what are his interests, what does he like in women, what doesn't he like in women, best vacation, things that get him talking and then respond in kind and remember if he is interested he will ask you questions too. so ask him questions and then say things that will get him to ask you a question.
turn the conversation around ';Tell '; him to talk to you about himself. Such as what is going on with you ?....Why ?
Ask about his past,where did he go to school?
Ask about his family,how big?how many?what are they like?
Ask about his pets,did he have any?what kind?
Ask about where he's been,for how long?and when?
If your interested in him,why are you not interested in all about him.
After the past try asking about his present,and then you could delve into his future plans.
could ask him about the future what he dreams of etc. could ask him his favorite stuff music sexual positions whateva . could tell him some jokes or something too
guys love to talk about work,sports,sex
let him do the talking and respond to whatever he says
bingo!
convo matches and gasoline!
I've had phone conversations that have lasted for like 7 hours. And yea I know what you mean about keeping up your side of the convo. But after you ask him about his day and things like that. I say dive into some general topics, see what he has views on and then that way he can see what you feel strongly about as well. Trust me many guys want to hear a chick's opinion about things. Lets them know they aren't dealing with a airhead or someone that will always agree with them all the time.
Talking in the phone is one great thing, I speak for hours together.. It's very easy to keep the convo going on and on.. First ask him what you mentioned, like how was the day and all.. Then ask him about his day plan and if you really care about him, ask him if he ate well what he had, where all he went.. Usually guys do start all these.. Then you tell what all you did, and tell him if you had any problems.. What ever it is tell him (only if you trust him sooooooo much). Then talk about future plan and about the weekend. Try to listen to him very well and ask him about it on what ever he is saying with much interest. All depends on what type of relationship you are going to have with him.... Good luck :-)
Why dont you just continue the conversation instead of just asking him new ones. You will find that it will lead to other things naturally. If you try too hard by trying to ask new questions all the time it's not a real conversation it's more like a question and answer session. Hardly sexy or romantic
ask him somethink personal, and ask mistery question it good to be kind of u know on the phone. some time.
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