I've never felt like I fit in anywhere and I'm not much of a people person. Advice? I am a lonely soul.?

I do well in college, I'm fairly smart and I'm also funny. People are initially attracted to me, but I feel like they don't get me. I'm an only child and have always felt set apart from people.





What do I do to fit in? Help?I've never felt like I fit in anywhere and I'm not much of a people person. Advice? I am a lonely soul.?
If you are not a people person, then get a pet.I've never felt like I fit in anywhere and I'm not much of a people person. Advice? I am a lonely soul.?
It may mean that you cannot really relate to most people, as is the case with Indigo and Crystal children. It doesn't mean you are bad, if this is the situation, it simply means you are channeled into a higher level of being.





But, as a previous person answered, I do not know you well enough to say what you are. What you are explaining can be of several reasons other than that you are an Indigo or Crystal, and that includes emotional issues, or perhaps in metaphysical terms, it has something to do with your ';life purpose';. Perhaps you are having these feelings because you are not comfortable with yourself.





Before you try to fit in, it is important to be one with yourself, and then you will see that the people who make you feel at ease and whole will naturally be drawn to you. There's no magic to it.





I hope this helps. : )
I understand just how you feel as all my life I have felt the same. What you don't understand is inside you hides a person who is much needed today. You are one who in my opinion could in fact change many things and will find people out there like you for who you are. Join or organize groups of people to help them develop co-opts, small businesses, things that make their lives better. You see not all of us were lucky enough to attend college but we collectively are quite bright. By giving back you will find the great person you have hidden inside just waiting to get out and make a difference. I, like you feel the same way and have for over 60 years but have finally got it.I intend to, be it in a small way make a difference, to change lives and help to understand myself as well.Remember, Great people don't always amass great wealth or win wars, the Greatest change lives one at a time. Make a difference. Good luck in all you do and God Bless.
I was just like you when I graduated from college. I don't like to be with people because I was thinking all the while that they won't like me. But when I started working in a big company with many workers and employees I changed a lot. My co-workers were just like my family members. I had not worked in any company but stayed here with people that care and loved me as I am. For 17 years I was with them. This had given me enough self confidence and moral values. After I resigned from work I could go anywhere and be with people of all sorts of life. And best of all I was found by the Lord and He put me in a church with people who loved and understood me. I became a Christian and God made me a person with vigor, zeal and joy even at my age at 66. I still enjoy my life with young and old people in church. There is joy in serving God.
I'm afraid I don't know you well enough (at all, really) to comment on your behaviour, but what attracts me most to a person is their ability to be completely at ease with themselves. Maybe you are projecting your loneliness onto other people, so that they feel a sort of desperation coming off you? Try to relax more.





Again, I could be completely off here. We need a little more to go on from you if you want us to be really helpful.
go on a spiritual journey.





i wouldn't recommend church for you because you don't sound like the kind of person that feels spiritually uplifted in a group setting, you would probably feel outcast.





just open your mind to the idea of a bigger life force, and feel the love. Go on an adventure by yourself, aka backpacking across europe or something. you will meet interesting people, but more importantly you will discover things about yourself and hopefully feel content.





remember that everyone is essentially alone. only you will be there your entire life through every experience, learn to appreciate that. you can't be alone if you have yourself
Don't try to fit in; it requires you to be false. Instead make friends with individual people. Be patient when they don't get you. Take note of the birth order of people you start getting close to. Try to understand how that makes them look at the world. You will be ';getting'; them. You are a complex person. To expect someone to understand you quickly is unfair to them.
You know, you are not the only one who feels that way or has felt that way from time to time. Find something that you are interested in and try to seek out people who are like minded. This can be through church, school or wherever. Start a club at your college for counseling sessions which just translates into rap sessions for people who don't feel that they fit. You may be surprised at how many responses you get. Good luck!
Our purpose is to support the underdog, to speak for those with no voice, to find the words to express misery, defeat, indecision, and the otherwise inexpressible.





We should find a way to share the joy of simplicity, we should show the way for others who simply wish to be, we are to cry at the sad songs, showing others that tears have a purpose and put a depth to feeling.





Our mission is not easy, and we are not to assume that the mission of others is any easier.





Just be, my fellow being, just be.......................lonely souls are very deep souls. The world needs depth far more than it knows.





The wisdom of the walk is revealed in the loneness of the walk.
Jesus will help you. One Night I was so lonely and hurt I felt like I wanted to die.





I went in my room and said with all of my heart Jesus I am a sinner.Please Forgive my sins.I believe You died on the cross and rose from the dead.Please forgive my sins Jesus.Come into my heart Jesus.





All of the sudden Jesus put so much love and peace inside of me it was almost unbelievable.But it happened.
Find a good church...Let god take care of this issue.


I'm a loner too, and I find going to a good church that I like, helps me feel comfortable around people. Church people aren't always about pushing the bible on you, It's a safe place to meet people that you can trust, and open up to.
there is nothing wrong with not spending your time in crowds of people, etc... unless you want to be.


my advice, be yourself. be what you want to be.


go out and do some fun things, and along the way you will meet a friend, or two.



Go to a church. Join a youth group. There are usually a number of people you could get to know, and the thing is you will all have something in common already.
Make a martyr of yourself... but first you need to find a cause. One that is founded on reality and truth.





Otherwise... forget about fitting in... just be yourself.
join the emos...they have cookies.