Do you usually give the advice other people can't bear to give.?

I'm asked for advice a lot... i think its better to suggest options because people don't really want an opinion, more so to hear themselves talk and maybe get their thoughts clear or reach an understanding of circumstances... providing options lets them decide for themselves and hopefully reach a conclusion... the cold brutal facts wake some people upDo you usually give the advice other people can't bear to give.?
I can't speak for other people, but as for me I try to do my best in giving good advice to those that want to even listen. I don't set my self up as an authority on evey subject matter but talk about things that I myself have experienced through the years, in hoping that I may help others kind of stay on track and advice them of things both good and bad, that's happen to me.Do you usually give the advice other people can't bear to give.?
Yeah. The last thing I'm going to do is tell someone something they want to hear just to avoid an argument. I won't be a jerk about it just for the sake of being a jerk, but I'd rather have everyone I know mad at me because I said something I honestly believe than have them all love me because I said something I don't. And by asking for advice they opened themselves up to every possible answer. They don't have the right to get angry at advice they don't like.
Yes.





I tell people all I can and that is often the bad and then the good. I expect them to take the good and hate me for the bad but I give them the bad first to make sure they do not get hurt without need.
If its the truth..then yes. If i ask people if a shirt looks good on me or not and if they say it looks great when it makes me look short and fat, I would want to know that so i never look at a shirt like that again.
Yes and people HATE that. The way I see it, all their other friends/family can sugarcoat things for them but everyone needs atleast one person to give them the ';tough love advice'; and I'm up for the challenge.
nope. I think the people here know they are anonymous so they are brutal. And no more brutal than I am. I am polite and as politically correct as possible but honest.
I never give advice. If I am asked a question, I will answer it honestly or give my opinion.
I usually give good advice only if they can take it.
yes, but I try to soften the blow unless if it appears cold hard facts would be better.
Sometimes if it needs to be said
you mean like telling a fat girl she shouldnt be wearing a bikini?


yes i am that person.



Yes, I try in a subtle way...
Yes.
Yeah, on here and real life.