I need some older people advice like 18 an up. plz nd thanks?

well im 16 nd im dating this boy i really like. we have been dating for almost 2 mths and we have yet to have sex which i find a great thing. well his bday was yesterday and his friends are asking us did we do the nasty.lol and we didn't i feel pressured to have sex with him so that he can tell his friends we did and they can stop asking. what are some ways you deal with peer pressure in high school thanks for taking the time to help someone u dont even know.I need some older people advice like 18 an up. plz nd thanks?
Take it from a 26 yrs. old. you don't have to have sex. He is not pressuring you to have sex. Don't worry about what his friends say. Sometime young people have a way of making their peers feel pressured, when they really are not trying to pressure them. Most of the time it's all about your friends just minding their business. sometimes they need to be reminded. So don't be scared to tell your homies to mind their BI. Keep it tight. Peace out.I need some older people advice like 18 an up. plz nd thanks?
Have sex when YOU want to not his friends.


But ur asking ';older'; 18's ?
ignore the others %26amp; dont have sex until you feel comfortable that you're ready. most people regret having sex so young and would have probably have waited longer if they hadn't given into the pressure. if all he wants from u is sex . . . just find someone else
You shouldn't have sex with someone if you have been only dating them for 2 months! It sounds like your boyfriends friends are jerks, I hope your boyfriend isn't trying to pressure you to do so, because no girl should be put into a situation like that.





What you need to know is that if you give in, people may consider you ';easy'; just because you did give into peer pressure. Stay strong! Popularity and being liked by all isn't all that great. Who cares if they make fun of you for not doing it. If your happy than that's what really matters.
Dear lord, Just don't. Listen to Blondie's ';I know what boys like';. Don't let boys touch your body unless you're ready for them to own your heart. I wish I didn't give in to peer pressure in high school. Being a virgin is something to be so proud of. Nobody has dammaged you yet. Do not have sex because his friends are asking if you guys have. When you do have sex, do it because you love eachother and you can't stand another minute NOT having sex. And preferably, be over 18 or married ;-)
A very Young girl of 16.





Please the world is too dangerous but we will still allow ourselves to express our emotions.





I don't have much time i would have like go much deep into this.





Sex, is a matter of great concern when it comes to relationship. You must feel it before you do it. For men they are always ready to do it. And our friends (I mean guys like us) are always our problem. Very hard for us to over come peer pressure when it comes to sex in relationship.





In my own case, i will like to share it briefly with you.





I mate her in 2002 and we are still together till today and had never had sex, Not that i don't feel it and her also, but we understand that we have to be ready for it and prepared. My friends has called me fool and many other names ingrate, ancient, to mention the least.





But today, i can look at them i see those friends of mine in one relation problem or the other. They come to me or call my girl.





I want you to make your guy into loving you. Sex is not the only way to express love.





I wish you good luck
Wow. Don't do it! You'll regret it; he'll end up leaving you and making you feel used. His friends are jerks for pressuring you. You need to wait!
if that is all he's interested in, dump him... :D





it has nothing to do with his friends what sexual activity you get upto... and if he wants to boast, then that is very childish...
Be your own person. Peer pressure only affects the people who let it affect them. Me personally it never affected me because I never cared what other people think of me. That's the outlook you have to have. If someone doesn't like you for who you are then they aren't worth your time. Don't change yourself for anyone but you. If he tells his friends that you had sex when you didn't, then he's extremely insecure not only with himself but also with your relationship. Tell him how you feel with him saying that if it bothers you. If it doesn't. GOOD FOR YOU. It's frankly none of their business whether you did or not. Me personally, if I was him and they asked me. My response would have been ';Nope, was to busy with yours.'; That will let them know that it's none of their business and also give them a nice shot. LOL